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Everything that you'll want to know about me
but were afraid to ask !!!
My full name is Silverchild Jericho Vanlalruatkima Hrahsel Lushaipasaltha, but you can just
call me kima I was born on April 21 1980. I am the youngest in my family and got three elder
sisters. Boy, talk about being pampered, this is it ! Being the youngest and only boy in the
family, life sure is a bed of roses. I must have been an extemely good person in my previous
life :)
Presently, dad is a retired Chief Engineer of Power and electric Dept., Mizoram, and mum is a
Phd. degree holder, a reader to be more specific, in a Teacher's Training College. Got a
nephew and niece thanx to my eldest sas. Eldest sis is a lecturer in the same college, second
sis is in UK doing PG in Psychology, and my third sister is in "Ashoka Group of Hotels" doing
Hotel Management.
Although i'm a mizo, stayed most of my life outside mizoram. Did nursery at Harvey's School,
Zarkawt, LKG and class 1 at Neuhof School, Chanmary, Class 2 to 5 at JJ School, Bawngkawn
(hostel). Was in St.Thomas School, Calcutta from class 4 to 6, then moved to Montfort School,
Yercaud,TN, and completed my school life over there. Right now, i'm doing my BE Computer
Science Engineering at PSG Tech, Coimbatore,TN.
I love listening to music. I play the guitar too, and have composed a couple of songs myself.
I get mesmerised anywhere from slow sentimental love songs to Heavy Trash Metal. I like all
type of music except boy-bands. If you have time, please do visit my music page.
Drawing is one of my favourite past-times. I love sketching away the time, being creative
and imagining the impossible. I hate studies. Flunking in exams seem to be a habit.... more
like an addiction ! Every time, during exams, i always find something to distract me, stuffs
like observing ants nibbling a dead cockroach to pieces and transporting the bits to their
hive, cleaning my room, trunk, cup-board etc., neatly copying down all the cell nos. of my
friends for the upteenth time, browsing at sites i used to consider boring blah bah blah...
anything, as long as its not studies !
I just love parties. Visiting disc with friends is my weekly ritual, and active night-life is
my middle name. I also love house parties, coz, those slow dances, man, you'll never find
them anywhere else ! I also love watching the idiot box and am a total movie freak. I make
it a point not to miss any movie released.
My main game is Basketball, but i can also play football, volleyball and carom-board quite
well. Currently, i am in the National Hide-n-seek team ! I also happen to master the art of
"in-hmatawng-den", an ancient mizo card game, quite similar to Bridge. I also learnt a bit
about the mystical form of "chungfu", going for practice every evening at our "Chungfu"
center, and i am currently holding the rank of "tao~manchow zig-zig samurai" belt, similar
to a karate leather belt.
My love-life is not as fascinating as that of an average mizo. Flirting, maybe yes, but necking
and pecking someone at the back seat of my car, someone that i do not know or someone who's
just a friend, someone that i don't really love.... man, i just can't do it. Maybe because
the conserved indian culture had taken deep root into my conscience, but whatever, my idea
of having fun with a girl involves sharing, caring, lots of laughter, emotions and love.
Hence, my idea of a perfect girlfriend is someone who knows what i'm talking about ( also
someone who knows what she's actually talking about ! ), frank n' honest, independent,
understanding, humorous (pulling a fast one on me now and then, instead of sitting cold
like a statue), and most important : someone who loves me back as much as i do. Coming to
looks, well, physical appearance doesn't last forever. As long as all the parts are in the
right places, very feminine (like no moustaches and hair all over their body) and atleast 5
inches tall, its perfect. If i really love that person, then no matter what ppl say, she will
always be beautiful in my eyes. Age no bar: most of the girls that i've got real close to are
all older than me. Age is just a number. What really counts, is that thing inside your head.
I also love girls with beautiful smile, wonderful smell and gentle manners... someone who'll
make me want to become a better man ( u hear this in every romance , don't you ! ).
Sometimes when my friends come to my room and there is no electricity, we talk about stuffs
( you know, "guys' talk" ), and usually, a subject on girls will pop up. Then all the guys
will start bragging about which girls have they smooched or screwed, or which girl have they
fingered and stuff, which girls have they two-timed etc... All of a sudden, the innocent
girl-next-door whom you have admired all this time turns out to be a slut-in-real-life.
I also have a lot of friends (gals), all good looking n' spunky, who have confided a lot
in me, like "Is your friend seeing anybody ? Coz i like him a lot but don't tell him" ,
"Kima, please fix me up with your pal from Chanmary, but don't tell my b.f." and "You know,
i've slept with your friend X" ! I'm not saying i find anything wrong in that or that i detest
them. They are all very good friends, and there's no other company i'd rather be other than
theirs, but i am just not like them. Its not the 'sex' part that i'm talking about. Sex is
good, and should be experienced atleast once while one is still a teenager. But, sleeping
with someone or exploring the forbiddden jungle while falsely claiming to be in love with
someone else is something i'm not moulded up of. Here is where i pick up another important
quality of an ideal girl-friend : the ability to trust her, and the girl's worthiness of
being trusted. This quality is very important to ppl like me who are doing their studies
far away from their loved ones, and who barely see each other for 2 months every Year. This
is one reason why most of my friends studying away from their loved ones dread to think about.
And atleast on 20 occassions ( mebbe more, who's counting ? ) have i come to know about a
particular friend's girl two-timing him. Man, i really don't know what to do on those
occassions, coz being my friend, i'd really want to tell him, but naturally, he'll ask me
where i've learnt about that from, and then i can't tell him the source's name coz i have
sworn her into secrecy and so..i'm stuck. And i still know a couple of guys who have dropped
out from their Colleges b'coz they just can't bear to be seperated from their loved-one,
hence putting their future into jeopardy. (Yo, Jimmy, Notea, are u listening??? )
I guess there is nothing more wonderful than falling in love. How i long to experience that
feeling again... ofcourse, once again, i ain't talking about just the sex part. There are
so many different feelings involved, so many things happening like a dream, so many actions
spoken by the heart.... One thing i have concluded after all those talk with my friends
(the result of being a good listener) is that only about 30% are genuinely in love. Hey,
i'm not trying to sound like a great expert on love or like a shrink (that's my sister's
department), but its true.
So i'll end with one advice i've been meaning to give to all the mizo girls.... incase you
end up sleeping with someone, keep it quiet and don't tell anybody. You know how fast news
travel in Aizawl. Keep it to your heart, lock it up and throw away the keys. Don't even tell
your best-friend (trust me, i know). Coz we guys, none of us like being with sluts, not
because of what they are, but rather because we don't like other guys making fun of us about
it. Period.
This sectionof the page is added 6 months later...
After reading and re-reading, (and accusations!), i just realised i'm too...
chauvinistic. My most sincere apology to all the great ladies out there, especially the B'lore gang... the fault and
criticism i have pointed out, well, this is just to say that guys too aren't very different...
Happy?
Yup, and another friend of mine (who wants to remain anonymous), wants to point out that even they gals don't wanna go out with a loser not bcoz of what he is, but bcoz they don't like other girls making fun of them about him! How true indeed...
So, one more piece of advice to all ye guys... You wanna win her love, first try to impress all her friends!!!! ;-))
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