Helpful Tip for others to help

These are things that others did for us when our dad passes away that really cheered us up.

#1. If you know some one whose daddy or mommy passed away, it would make them feel good when they get flowers or cards or just a visit from a good friend.

#2. People would send emails with funny things in them and gave us a laugh. Then they stopped sending them since they though they would make us depressed. Though it was better when they were sending funny cards to us. So send someone you know a funny card or email or something to make them laugh. Also if you do send a email or card, it should be a appropriet joke. It shouldnt be gross or mean. It should be nice and funny or sorrowful.

#3. When you are visiting someone who relative or friend passed away, and they say something like, "I think our family needs some alone time to ourselves, but thanks for visiting." They mean leave, so leave.

#4. After someone passes away, the people who are really upset like family members, they will have many mixed emotions such as humor, anger, happy, and more so if they get mad at you or something, they don't mean it, its just one of the emotions they are going through

#5. If you are a kid, (or even a adult,) you could go and play with them with like cards, the computer, board games, etc... to help them keep there minds busy.

#6. If they are really sad and you invited them to do stuff, you shouldn't push them to do it because sometimes it brings back lots of memories that hurt a lot.