The Five Love Languages Quiz

 

 

1. When you want to show someone how much you appreciate them, do you:
1. Make them dinner
2. Give them a card
3. Take them out for the evening

 

2. Do you enjoy giving and receiving backrubs and playing with another’s hair?
1. Sometimes
2. Not really
3. Can I play with your hair?

 

3. If you were to receive a coupon from a loved one for your birthday, what would it say?
1. Redeemable for three free backrubs
2. Redeemable for one gift of your choosing under $20
3. Redeemable for an afternoon together doing anything you want to do

 

4. When you’re getting ready in the morning, what would you most like to experience?
1. Someone you love hugging you
2. Seeing the dishes from last night done without your knowledge
3. Hearing, “You look really great today!”

 

5. Do you find yourself often encouraging and complimenting others?
1. Yes, and you’re doing a great job!
2. No
3. It has happened, but not all the time

 

6. What makes you feel the best?
1. A good friend going on and on about your new hairstyle or shirt
2. A friend giving you the CD you’ve been wanting – when it’s not even your birthday!
3. Hanging out with a good friend on a Saturday afternoon

 

7. What makes you feel the worst?
1. Your roommate not doing the dishes even when they know how busy you’ve been
2. Someone telling you how bad you’ve been doing at work or school lately
3. Someone you love not hugging you when you return from a long trip

 

8. Helping a friend move. How often do you volunteer?
1. Not unless I feel like I have to
2. If I have the time
3. Why, are you moving?  I’ll bring some boxes!

 

9. When your best friend is really upset, do you:
1. Cancel your plans for the evening and spend time with them
2. Encourage them the best you know how
3. Just hug them for as long as they need you to

 

 

10. What small gesture from your significant other would mean the most to you?
1. Bringing home a surprise for you
2. Holding your hand under the table
3. Cooking dinner for you

 

11. Is it really important to you to have one-on-one time with your friends?
1. In a group or one-on-one, it’s all good
2. I make it a priority to set aside time for each one of my friends
3. It is nice when I can spend time alone with a friend

 

12. And, if you could only choose one, which volunteer activity would you choose to do?
1. Habitat for Humanity – building homes for needy families
2. Hug a Child – spending time with a hospitalized child
3. Angel Tree – giving Christmas presents to children with parents in prison

 

13. When you greet a friend during finals week, what are you most likely to do?
1. Give them a hug or a pat on the back
2. Tell them they probably did really well
3. Ask if you can study with them later

 

14. Do you often give your friends presents, even cheesy ones, when it’s not a special occasion?
1. Yes. In fact, I saw this in the store and just had to get it for you…
2. No, I don’t always get them presents when there is a reason!
3. I might, but it’s usually a special occasion.

 

15. What would you most like to get from a child?
1. Hear them say “You are so nice,” or, “I love you.”
2. A drawing they spent significant time making for you
3. A toy they really love and think you would like

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

KEY

 

Count one point for each answer you had. Count two points for the answers marked double. There should not be more than 8 points in any column. The column with the most points is your primary love language. The column with the next highest points is your secondary love language.

 

	Words of Affirmation	Quality Time	Gifts	Acts of Service	Physical Touch
1		C	B	A
2					A
					C (DOUBLE)
3		C	B		A
4	C			B	A
5	A (DOUBLE)
	C
6	A	C	B
7	B			A	C
8				A
				C (DOUBLE)
9	B	A			C
10			A	C	B
11		B (DOUBLE)
		C
12		B	C	A
13	B	C			A
14			A (DOUBLE)
			C
15	A		C	B

Total: