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There is a fine line between being confident and secure in your relationship, and taking you relationship for granted. But it is an important line not to cross. Here's the thing, she fell in love with you for a reason. You should NEVER stop doing the things that you did when you first won her over. Remember when you were dating her, before it got serious, you would put your best foot forward. You wouldn't think about seeing her without lets see... showering, grooming, wearing clean clothes, cleaning your room/car, working out, etc. And you would always try your best to make her laugh and keep her entertained. But after time passed you just quit doing all those things. Why? Because you started taking her for granted. Now, here is the very important distinction, you don't want to take her for granted, but you also don't want to appear needy. How do you do this? By having control of your world. You know that you workout, you are always dressed nice, and you always put your best foot forward... OF COURSE SHE LOVES YOU, why wouldn't she? Being secure in a relationship isn't the same as taking it for granted. A man with confidence knows that his girlfriend is gonna stay with him because it is obvious he does the things that nobody else does. An insecure man thinks that he has to do all these things because he's afraid she will leave him if he doesn't. Just keep that attitude, and when she starts taking you for granted don't be afraid to call her out. Don't be insecure and fly off the handle. Just say something like, "I wish you wouldn't do that anymore it bothers me." Although feelings will inevitably change over time, you should try to act the same way you did when you first met her. And you should convey the attitude that you are a good catch and that you are secure in your relationships because you know you have value. To learn more groundbreaking relationship tips from the worlds leading experts on women, check out: http://www.relationshipmastery101.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Lance_T. |