Godly teaching on dating |
Back to evolution, the most important thing to show your woman is that she can feel safe with you. The Man has to be POWERFUL enough to LEAD her. But, if you are in a restaurant and she is the one who has to choose the table where you sit, then has to order the food while listening to you say, "You are soooo beautiful. I don't deserve such a beauty," what will she think? Is this man capable of protecting her? Does she feel safe with him? No. So the No. 1 quality a Man has is the ability to lead. Here are the other two as well: 2. A Man always has options, self-respect and is never needy. 3. A Man knows how to treat her. Let's look at No. 1 again: A Man knows how to lead, and he is confident in his role. You know how hard it is to be the captain of a ship? You are constantly forced to make decisions and take responsibilities. A slight sign of uncertainty is enough for you to lose the faith of your whole crew and probably the ship as well. How could 40 people follow their captain if he showed signs of hesitation and uncertainty? If you were in the crew, would you risk your life for such a captain? Not likely. Would you do it for a confident and resolute one who is always certain, even if he makes mistakes at times? Yes. It's almost the same with women. There are two people in a boat: you and she. You are the captain. She expects you to lead. At the first sign of uncertainty, she will jump out of your boat and choose another one. You will constantly have to be on your toes when making decisions. No one cares if it's a good or bad decision; it's you who will take the responsibility in the end. Young guys can't take responsibilities. To be a Man, you have to learn that first. Each and every decision you make will have a consequence. You can postpone making it, but sooner or later, you will have to decide. And it might be too late by then. So back to our list, the second point is: A Man always has options, self-respect and is never needy. Yes. What do I mean by having OPTIONS? Initially, the woman is in the position of power. She is the one who chooses. And she knows this very well. When you approach her, she can reject you. When it's time to kiss her, she can say no. When you want to have sex, she can refuse it. That's all true. But how do we make sure that she doesn't have a choice? Ha! By being a Man. She will see that you are one of the few "select" instantly and know this is her one and only chance to meet somebody like you. She knows you can move on and get another woman whenever you want. By the way, I tricked you. A Man who is capable of leading well won't leave her any time to think. He will appear out of the blue and talk to her. He will kiss her when the right moment comes without asking anything. She won't have a choice. At least she will feel as if she doesn't have a choice. And that's what she has wanted all along. To be swept away by the moment, with no other choice or time to think about social restrictions. The third thing on our list is: A Man knows how to treat her. A Man is a gentleman. He will be attentive, opening doors and pulling out chairs for her, and know how to care for her. Of course, he does all this in a confident way. Girls mostly encounter two types of guys: One of them is the average chump, whom she is bored to death with, who will put her on a pedestal, fulfill each and every one of her wishes and so on. The other is the typical jerk who acts Manly at times, but doesn't know how to treat her. Usually she will stay with the jerk instead of the average fool, but won't be satisfied with either of them deep inside. But a real Man knows HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN. And that's not just about confidence. Never forget that women are not objects or devices of experimentation. They are wonderful human beings and everyday people, just like you. So treat them equally. They have bad days and good days. They pee and shit. And they especially like thoughtful words and little surprises. Sometimes being thoughtful or giving a little present will mean much more to a woman than a huge bank account. Do you want to discover the PROVEN way to seduce women in 3 1/2 days by only changing your attitude? I am in the seduction game for 6 years and have achieved marvelous results. So YOU can. I have developed a report that will allow anyone to date beautiful women. Get my free report by visiting the link below. Click Here To Get Your Free Report Now Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Johan_M_Krost |