The Instrument
It was so odd a dream that I'm sure it is rife with metaphor. I was, I think, on a university campus (possibly Ole Miss because I could see the Lyceum, but there were other unknown buildings), sitting on a grassy lawn, books scattered here and there. These people and I were discussing history, poetry and various things when a package arrived, just for me. I didn't know who it was from. I had been waiting impatiently for a package to arrive in reality- the CD "The Land We Love" by Scocha, so possibly that explains that. Maybe.

Well, this large package when opened turns out to be a musical instrument. But what kind? It's no kind anyone has ever played before. It fit in my hands perfectly, and was small like a ukelele, but squared off at the end. The neck of it was just like any guitar, but my little fingers could wrap around and reach perfectly. When I went to strum it, I found that instead of guitar strings it had twine. When I strummed it, it made no sound that anyone would want to hear, that's for sure.

Someone near me on that lawn said, "Well, we will have to get you some strings." Next thing I knew, we were putting the strings on as I have seen my brother do so often. When I picked it up again, it was entirely different. I strummed it, and it made a better sound, but I looked down and my fingers were coated with crimson- I could not stop bleeding! Next thing, I was in the emergency room where I worked, and my co workers were rebuking me for doing something so stupid.

"Why did you even pick up that dangerous thing?" Stephen said.
"Kelly, you're smarter than that. Look what you've done to yourself now!" Sandy was shaking her head so disappointed.
My answer back to them was, "It doesn't hurt that much. Really." It didn't. Only a little.

Now, as I'm thinking back on this and what it might truly mean, I hear a quote from one of my favorite writers, Willie Morris. He said that sometimes writing is like opening a main and bleeding. I keep turning that phrase over and over in my mind. That is the key I think to understanding this whole strange dream, but some of the details I know are important, too.

For instance, the instrument being so unusual is significant. I'm struggling to maintain my individuality in my writing, yet to effectively communicate, one has to conform a bit. The strings being twine represents, I think, that as of this moment, I'm simply a poet and not a lyricist. I want to write SONGS, but I can not force my brain to work that way. I do not think in notes; I'm musically illiterate. I want the tool of music to add the power and depth that it can, and yet it is just not in my tool box, so to speak. Also important is this- my work in the ER is quite at odds with my writing. I can give up neither just for the sake of the one. Couldn't afford to even if I wanted to!


May 30, 2005 10:00 am


The Gown
Dreamed about my grandmother today. (That's what I get for being lazy on a Sunday afternoon. So many things I should've been doing. Woke up with a headache to boot!) Nana and I we're supposed to go to this formal concert, I think. After work, I was to come straight home and we would ride there together. Dropped off by Rita (an NP I work with) and to of the Docs, I popped in to pick up a sandwich (which I never do), and Nana was resting on the couch for the big evening ahead. From that prone position, she reminded me about it and that I would needed to wear a nice gown, not my scrubs. Well, of course! But it was all too like her to be concerned with what her family is wearing. Dressing appopriately was important to her.

Come to think of it, I'm not so sure it was a concert. Details are starting to come back as I write this. I think it was more a lecture on culture. But that doesn't make sense as lectures are never formal type events, are they? Sometimes dreams change up in the middle, so maybe it was at first a concert, then became a lecture. Who knows! Anyway, after her instructing me at length on what sort of dress to wear, I dashed back out the front door to find my ride had left me. With the lecture on dressing, I guess they got tired of waiting!

When I go back in, I tell this, and the response from Nana, Mama, and Coy (my aunt) is, "Well, now you have plenty of time to go shopping." Hmmm!? I suppose to be at work, but they want me to go shopping for an evening gown to attend a lecture? I woke up soon after that. Would have been nice to find out if found a gown that suited the three of them, whether it was a concert or lecture (something else entirely by the end of it) and if I got in major trouble at work for not getting back to finish my shift.

I have heard that when you have a dream about a relative that has passed on, then it is a visit from them. I don't think, though that their was anything significant in this that would be an actual statement. The only item I can glean from it is, "Don't think so much about work, and dress better." That doesn't sound like wisdom from beyond to me, so I'm going to say that maybe on this I was just thinking about my grandmother.

Sunday June 12, 2005 1:30 PM


Recurring Dreams
Falling I know a lot of people have this one, and they say it is due to feeling out of control. I'm sometime driving and drive over a cliff when brakes and steering fail to cooperate. Other times, I've just stepped off a rocky cliff and fallen to a rocky beach below. They say that you never hit the bottom, always waking first. But that isn't true! In the one where I fall from a cliff, I hit the ground. I feel the impact of landing on the rocks and sand, and then I look down on myself and see my own vacant stare. Lifeless eyes, and then flies swarming around my eyes. It's a horrid dream that I still have once in a while. I also have the one that most people have of falling endlessly. This is always surreal, not realistic like the others. It's techinicolor, but mostly in tones of red.

Riding over Hills....Not a pleasure ride, but with a group and the mood was very serious; perhaps angry and frustrated. We were in a hurry, and all running from something. Our horses pulled the hills easily. My mind in the dream was focused on the horse, but I was also aware of the others around me. I can't remember what they were wearing or who they were... All I know is that we were not sparing the horses and we were on the run. There was shouting, and we were all soaked to the bone. It was not raining, but it had been. I don't have this dream anymore.

After Dark Pleasure Riding... I have only had this one once since my college years....It is dark, and the moon is shining on the tops of the hills. It's all silvery like and really pretty! I remember that best of all. If I was a painter, I could paint the image because that is how clearly I see it, even now. There is a girl with me who laughs a lot. Giggles would be a better word. It seemed like everything I said, she thought it was funny. I wish I'd kept a dream journal in college so I might have recorded some details of this. I wish I could remember what it was I was saying to her that was so hilarious, just to have a good laugh now and then if nothing else!


Infant Head Injury

Dreamed early this morning about a different hospital. I was visiting, yet working if that makes sense. It actually looked a lot more like a church fellowship hall than a hospital ER. But here I was, working when a lady brought in a little girl of about 18 months in a car seat. The patient had a gaping, open head wound and was not crying. I've seen parents get so worked up over the slightest little things, but this lady was placid. Very unusual behavior. Head wounds bleed a lot so there was blood everywhere, all over the car seat, almost as much as the arterial bleed we had the other day. Brain matter was visible, yet the little girl was alert and looking about.

None of the staff at this place was all that worked up either. I was the only one, and what could I do? Nothing but try to get them to do what they're supposed to do, and they wouldn't take it seriously. I kept saying, "We need to get the Dr, right?" and "Can't I at least put in for some X-rays or something?" Everyone just kept looking at me like I was overreacting.

I really don't know what is up with this dream. It was strange, and I'm used to strange dreams. This one bothered me quite a bit. I woke up feeling very frustrated. I'm not sure I even want to figure this one out.
Friday, June 17, 2005


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