Introduction  

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To be human is to seek love. From the moment of conception till our last breath of air is taken. Love is what drives us, motivating us to keep searching for that elusive state of ecstasy.

Love is what fills all our hopes and dreams. To find a place where we feel more than accepted, more than special, more than belong, more than deserve, more than wanted, more than cared for, and are finally alone no more.

A place where we KNOW and BECOME love from the deepest part of our being. A place where we BECOME ourselves, filled with the joy and freedom to just be the part of us we have hidden and longed to be for so long.

To be human is to undertake a journey of searching for that one person who deems us as special, a perfect match for their desire to shower with their love. That one person with whom we will finally know love.

The dating and love game is an intense process whereby two strangers come together and undertake a series of activities, behaving in ways we believe needed to secure their love.

Each behavior and reaction is watched, looking for tell tale signs that reveal the others thoughts and feelings towards us, wondering if we are good enough, saying and doing the right thing, how they wish us to behave in order to secure their love. This game involves using a perfect stranger's reactions towards us, to gage our own worth.

Yet we crave to be ourselves, and for that self to be liked by members of the opposite sex. But, our belief of this impossibility triggers questioning our own belief of who we are.

How can we expect another to like who we are, when WE don�t even know who that person is? How can we expect another to love us for ourselves, when we hold so many beliefs that we are not good enough, bad, failures, don�t deserve, etc?

The game of love becomes one of inner turmoil and conflict; as each and every belief is triggered and we are forced to confront our fears one after another. That is how the game of love has been known until now, desiring it with all our hearts yet knowing it as a painful experience of ecstasy and then loss.

What if all the experiences have been so one day we may live their opposite? What if, just as we have found with our other beliefs, all we have believed love to be is the exact opposite of what it truly is?

What if life is really a journey of discovering what love is?

What if life is a journey OF love, where we are joined by our dearest and closest soul mates, with the aim being to re-discover our base self. Where we each do all that we can to encourage, motivate and facilitate the necessary events so our dear ones are triggered into discovering what we know them as, love.

Think of a child and what you would wish for them. Would it not be that they see themselves as you do, to know how very special their being is and to live without their fears and pain. Wouldn't you do all you can to aid that being realized? Isn't that a wish you have for all you know?

Is it really too hard to imagine the possibility of that special wish being what we ALL wish for each other? Behind the physical persona's of fears and hurts.

Is it really too hard to imagine the elusive dream of love becoming your reality?


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