How many time have you heard such comments from your friends one day, one week, one month, one year, or one decade … after coming out to your friends? Well, it's quite common if you are straight looking and nothing like your loud, screaming drama queen sister friends.

Some straight people think that all gay people only come in one kind - the campy one - period. Excuse me, I am straight looking and also gay too. Gay people like me exist - we do look like any regular blokes, sporty, and sometimes even more straight looking than your metrosexual male friends who wear designer garb.

I do take the liberty to come out to my straight friends sometimes just to see their wide open mouths and surprised looks. In a nutshell, my fellow brothers and sisters, just be proud of your sexuality.

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