for most North Bay parties

Social skills are key:

- Responds quickly to invitations

- If can't make it, asks to come to another party

- Keeps commitments - shows up as promised

- Phones host when leaving to drive to a party

- Enjoys the social as well as the sex part of parties

- Is gracious in declining to play with one who does not appeal to you

A playful attitude really helps:

- Eager to get naked quickly

- While still standing, enjoys stroking and playing with nearby men

- Looks for opportunities to draw others into play, as in 3/4 ways

- Happy to play with most races and types of men

- Likes to make a new guy the center of group attention for a while

- Able to get hard quickly, but resists cumming

- Willing to suck most guys at a party

- Interested in kissing some of the men at a party

- Before fucking, gets mutual consent, then always uses a condom

- Enjoys watching, supporting others getting it on

- Rather than add to a pile on one guy, looks for one needing attention

- Helps in getting all guys cum (who want to) by the end of the party

Physical Characteristics

- A hot pic or hot body helps, but a playful attitude is more important

- Ages usually range from 25 to 55 years old

- Most have a decent sized dick and get hard easily

- Mostly White guys, but other races provide interest and stimulation

- A mixture of tops and bottoms, but all get involved in sucking