oralmarin: What do you look for in an encounter?

oralmarin: Yeah, I agree. I've also come to realize that good body contact is essential to me. Had a fabulous hookup last night with a 34 yo regular who had been in Europe for several weeks - it was amazing

oralmarin: Highly intense - even before sucking cock. We really turn each other on!!! I look for others like that.

oralmarin: Light stroking all over the body, exploration

oralmarin: Lots of hugs, kissing, feeling a real body rapport

oralmarin: How about you?

oralmarin: I realized last night the cock is highly sexual, but the rest of the body overall can be just as sexual

oralmarin: That's sad. I'd like to pass on what this guy has taught me. He also sees women, who say he is the best lover they know. I can believe that!!

oralmarin: That's what I try now to find out on IM, and then politely decline if they're not interested. In sucking nipples, for example.

oralmarin: But I now realize that extended foreplay is another full half of the fun, and now I miss it if I can't give and get it!!

oralmarin: I learned that it doesn't always gravitate immediately. Last night, I realized I longed for him to hug and stroke my back much more than my cock at first. Mutual cock attention came many minutes later - and was all the more intense because of the delay!

2. An e-mail from OralMarin to another Yahoo club member - who had read all the other parts of this website:

It has been so enjoyable chatting with you on IM. And I really appreciate the time you've taken to read all the material I've put out for guys who might be interested in me. Perhaps that is why I get a feeling of real comfort and liking for you personally.

But as I reread a copy of our last IM chat, I wonder if we would fully satisfy each other sexually. Let me tell you about a first time meeting I had with a guy yesterday. It was intense pleasure for both of us for three full hours!! I had thought that only my buddy who had come back from Europe could turn me on so, but now I realize that my body really craves full hugging and stroking, in addition to good cock play.

I write these comments in an e-mail in order to give you time to reflect, rather than have to answer instantaneously, as in an IM chat. You should know that six weeks ago, I didn't realize what a turn-on it was to hug and kiss a good man. Such actions have little bearing on any emotional attachment. I feel only a physical bond with the two guys with whom I had such good sex and body contact this week.

You seemed to enjoy reading the "full disclosure" stuff I've written. Perhaps I should add something like this e-mail to my profile links. In any case, I felt it was only fair to let you know my current feelings, as they have developed, on what makes me a happy camper. I'd be more than willing to share these pleasures with you, if they sound appealing.

OralMarin