The Myth of the Gift
So we have this clear from the start, I do not see submission/slavery as a gift that can be played on or withdrawn at your 'free will'. My time, guidance and discipline is given when I choose, it can and will be freely withdrawn at my own leisure. That is MY gift to you! There is no exchange here.
Dominant men don't hand over the control of a relationship to their slaves, they take control and keep control, no gift certificates apply. If your 'owners' assume such a title in name only then good for them, I suppose some people are all too happy to hand over their control and live with pseudo titles but do not expect the same here.
If you do not work on yourself do not expect anyone else to waste their time doing so. You will not be looked upon as precious little pets to be pampered and coddled. Slaves are strong intelligent females, not posers who do nothing more than primp and mouth off without thought.
Life does not revolve around slaves OR your expectations. Deal with it.
Shame Shame Shame
Also know that contrary to popular belief you cannot shame a free man, you are a slave thus not in any position to do so. If you screw up on your own regardless of what a free man has taught or demanded of you, the shame lay fully on your shoulders, not theirs. You are an adult thus you will be held responsible for your actions.
Honour - Dishonour?
Then we stumble onto the old favourite, honour. The amount of times I see people harping about slaves 'honouring' and 'dishonouring' collars and owners left right and centre makes me laugh. Honour is one persons and one persons alone, you earn it on your own and you lose it on your own. My slaves certainly do not hold my reputation nor my honour by the balls and I am not at ransom to them everytime they happen to screw up. I could not respect a man who allowed his 'slave' to hold that power.
You as a slave do not have the power to take anything from the free especially something as personal as honour. Do not assume to think that anything you do as a slave honours or dishonours me, a free man. No one can dishonour me but myself.
Feminine Wiles
Your sexual attraction and sexual behaviour also has no power over me. If I desire you in such a way I will do with you as I see fit and when I choose. It means nothing more than self serving pleasure and is not a step closer to anything else. In the off chance I do take you in such a way do not assume it means anything more to me than what it is, it doesnt. You will more than likely crawl away aching and untouched. Dont bother trying to coerce, it may work for some but not for all and certainly not for me. If you seek someone whose brains reside in their pants, take a look around there are plenty on offer.
Smart Slave or Smart Mouth?
An intelligent slave uses her abilities wisely. The amount of times insolence is poorly concealed under excuses is a true sign of someone who has learned nothing of slavery but think they know everything. It's not just what you say but how you say it. If you are told to voice your opinions do so in the way an intelligent slave would, not as a mouthy wench who assumes the opportunity to speak means a chance to spout off like an uneducated uncontrolled brat.
Self-discipline is the key, it is not something for the free alone. Excuses blaming your outbursts on your "personal strength" or the fact that your "owner permits it" are laughable also, learn some self control then maybe you will be worth a little notice... maybe.
Compromise
Compromises, concessions and other things such as jointly agreed terms, limits, rituals, contracts or whatever belong somewhere else.
Having slaves voice their thoughts and ideas is as valuable to me as the slaves themselves and being that I only own intelligent women, I do take each and every opinion on board. In saying that, as valued as they are to me, I will never compromise, concede or bargain on who I am and how I expect things to be done.
There is no 'discussion' on any given command I make. Trust is the basis of -any- relationship thus while slaves may come across things they truly dislike sometimes, they will complete it to the absolute best of their abilities. They will be watched closely to see how they cope during these times and situations will be tweaked to satisfy my preferences while at the same time enriching their own growth within their slavery.
If a slaves priorities are not the free she serves, then she is not a slave.
Slaves don't run from slavery.
End Muse
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