He asked me to marry him within that first six months, but I laughed it off, thinking it was a joke! It wasn�t and sensing I had hurt his feelings, I tried to make it up to him. I made an honest effort to be more loving and caring towards him and his needs.
Now that is has been 11 months into the relationship, he comes to me to tell me he�s thinking of having sex with another woman! How crass! Not only is he being demeaning to me, but to the other woman and to himself! Could this possibly be just a one year itch? Or is he truly wanting to go sow his wild oats while under my roof?
I�ve talked to many other women and marriage counselors about this. They told me that many men have different views about this than women do. Men have that primitive urge in their loins to seek out new prey. It really doesn�t matter to them if they are married or in a relationship.
I now find myself in a quandary about what I am supposed to do. I love him, but how can I let him destroy our relationship? Ok, he did tell me he wants me to go seek out a man and sleep with him, but I feel that is only to stifle his own feelings of guilt! I will NOT stoop to this level. I am above this.
I just wonder how many other men carry on without the women�s knowledge. As Chris puts it �at least I told you first�!
Hello?!?!?
