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Sempiternal Harmony Boundaries that build the community Click to go to Home Page The chant you are hearing is a prayer for understanding. Updated 8/3/2006 to add clarification to various questions posed by interested individuals. There are a few precepts that are required of all Sempiternal Harmonist. The purposes of these rules are to provide for orderly associations among the believers, and aid in the uplifting of Civilization. In addition, these precepts establish the Sempiternal Harmony as a religious movement as it might be defined in anthropological terms and modern legal jargon. A. Love God and all of creation. Attempt to see the divine nature in All. B. Pray, meditate, and write at least one uplifting thought each day. C. Study Scriptures of, and associate openly, lovingly and often with people of other religions. D. Associate and form a close bond with people of the Sempiternal Harmony. E. Do not participate in the murder or killing of any human being except for the purpose of protecting the life of an innocent other person. Reconsider all justified killing such as that done in war, that done for production of food, and in the name of justice. Killing for war and food are matters of personal conscience. Killing in the name of justice is cultural and subject to the social norms of civilization and is reflective of its values. If one chooses to live in a society that has established capital punishment as a means of retribution for major crimes then he or she must make no statement against this practice. However, as a Sempiternal Harmonist, one should inform law makers of the positive benefits accruing to a society that chooses to not practice capital punishment. When killing is necessary the soldier, meat eater or member of the society which takes the life of a convicted criminal will make a ceremony in remembrance of those whose life is taken. F. Do not take what does not belong to you. G. Do not make false statements. When a delicate conversation is required be compassionate and speak gentle words but be truthful. H. Do not engage in sexual activity with anyone other than a spouse or committed partner (see below). The sharing of sexual pleasure must remain a privilege. The primary function of sexual behavior is to create new human beings, but God has given sexual intercourse a great pleasure for us. The purpose of this rule is to bring to consciousness and center on the nature of this great privilege. The pleasure aspect of sex is purely animal instinct, while the attribute of privilege is centered in the mind and heart. Here is the cup where love fills to overflowing. There is a possible exception to this precept which can be guidance for those beyond child bearing age. When the possibility of the creation of children is no longer a function of sexual interaction, a couple in a deep personal relationship can experience the blessing of sexual intercourse without fear of social stigma provided that they maintain the understanding that each gives the other the privilege of this experience. I. Do not use substances that alter one's personality, ability to work or ability to reason. You were born perfect. It is impossible to improve upon yourself with mind altering substances. Of course, if there is a diagnosed mental disorder and there is a medicine that can restore normal cognitive function then this provision does not apply. J. Be employed to support yourself and your family. Live modestly, within the earned means, and do not use debt except to provide a purchased dwelling and a single vehicle. If one is retired, nurturing, or disabled, he or she can provide services to charitable organizations. K. Make family unity top priority. Child Rearing Families: A man and a woman will commit and marry in the full knowledge that they will bond in matrimony for life. Each member of the family must play a role that unifies the members into a state of oneness with each other. All members of the family will share responsibility for the various functions and chores in the family but the primary responsibilities are as follows. The mother of the family will be the prime nurturer of the family, own all family property, and be the prime spiritual guide. The father will be the prime securer, disciplinarian, and spiritual guide of the family. Older siblings will help with the training and teaching of skills to the younger children. While children may attend public school the family is primarily responsible for the proper education, training in family traditions and values, and morality of the children. Younger children will be encouraged and trained to be respectful and receptive to the goals and efforts of the older members of the family. As the younger children reach the age of adolescence, their responsibilities will include training and teaching nieces and nephews and, later, there own children. Non Child Rearing Relationships: Individuals will make a commitment to each other for love, support, security, and partnership in general. This relationship will be monogamous and may include celibacy when agree to by the committed individuals. The above boundary is meant for new individual committed relationships where the individuals were raised as a Sempiternal Harmonist as children. New families of Sempiternal Harmonists are encouraged to adopt as many of the above guide lines as they are able to implement. L. Treat others with compassion and kindness even though you do not receive compassion or kindness in return. Let go of anger and do not hold a grudge. When faced with a personal interaction where another person seems aggressive, argumentative or inconsiderate, treat the situation as a mirror reflecting your own actions. Very often other people are giving us back what we project. Through this kind of observation we can become more in tune with our own being and discover a new light of compassion and kindness. M. Revere, honor and uplift children. More important than any other thing in the Sempiternal society is children. Each child is the hope for human kind. It is the responsibility of every Sempiternal Harmonist to provide guidance, education, moral values, spiritual understanding, and general preparation for his or her role in the family as well as in the community. This percept is so important that childless couples are asked to act as god parents for a specific child in support to the maternal parent’s child rearing efforts. It is hoped that by centering on the child, a paradigm shift will take place that will lift all of civilization to a new sense of peaceful coexistence and cooperation by reducing the traditional human desire for ever increasing wealth. Acquisition of wealth may happen, but it should be as a secondary result of higher personal values associated with child development. |
