ROmEO VG: I will do that just to change that icon.
change it nowwwww
SonymolS: mann; no way; i no longe reven remember
how
SonymolS: besides i like ittt
SonymolS: he has the perfect expression on his face, and
a good thick neck and tall hair; both admirable features
ROmEO VG: buttttttttttttttt urn't a guy!
SonymolS: and u ain't no einsteinnn
ROmEO VG: if I had that icon that would be fine butttttttt
ur a grl
SonymolS: whateverahh man whateverahhh
ROmEO VG: changeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee it
SonymolS: ayoo vendaaa
ROmEO VG: ayoo? wont it be aiyoo?
SonymolS: i don't know
SonymolS: okay
SonymolS: aiyyyooo
ROmEO VG: hey would be rather be dirt poor but happy
or rich and no so happy
ROmEO VG: not be so happy
SonymolS: definitely dirt poor and happy
SonymolS: no question
SonymolS: who wants to be rich and unhappy?
ROmEO VG: meeeeeeeeeee
SonymolS: i definitely don't
ROmEO VG: i rather be rich
SonymolS: whyy???
SonymolS: why???
SonymolS: what's teh reasoning?
ROmEO VG: bcoz u can take medication to be happy.
its such a state of mind. being poor is too much reality with
no cure
SonymolS: but if you are happy, then what's the problem
with being poor?
SonymolS: and if you take medication to be happy, then
are you are rich and happy; so i'd reather be rich and
happy
SonymolS: but u said rich and unhappy, so no..you
cann't take medication to be happy
ROmEO VG: happiness is just state of mine. being poor
or rich is a concrete situation. I can change state of mind
somehow.
SonymolS: hmm..that's an interesting point
SonymolS: but in your scenerio your state of mind is
unhappy when you are rich; so what's wth epoint?
ROmEO VG: poor people how happy cannot be rich. rich
can easily be poor. atleast I would have the option.
SonymolS: poor people can be rich
ROmEO VG: but its not as easy as rich people being
poor
SonymolS: well; if i am poor and happy; it means i am in
love, have tons of friends, love my job
SonymolS: if i'm rich and unhappy, i am in a loveless
marriage, hate my job, and dont' have any friends or
family..how yucky; who wants that? just to have
"things"..I dont' even like "things"
ROmEO VG: you saying loveless marriage and good job
is only reason for not being happy?
ROmEO VG: poor as in dirt poor. U have no job, u have
no friends. ur jus happy. it could be a mentally ill person
that is running around the neighborhood happy
SonymolS: there are obviously millions of reasons to be
unhappy; those are just the most obvious ones
SonymolS: well okay then; but he would be the same
happy that I would feel w/ all those aforementioned
thigns; so what's teh difference?
SonymolS: i like that happy
SonymolS: happy is powerful; you get rich to be happy,
if you can't be happy, why get rich?
ROmEO VG: soooooooooo happiness trumphs every
other kind of emotion and circumstances?
SonymolS: i don't mind being poor, if i'm happy
SonymolS: yup yup
ROmEO VG: so does ur happiness trumphs over others
happiness?
SonymolS: what else is better than happiness?
SonymolS: no, i hope not. but problably
ROmEO VG: I think happiness is just state of mind which
has nothing to do with reality. depressed people in perfectly
good circumstance are sad and out. mentally ill with
everything messed up is happy. I dont think people should
even talk about hapiness as something concrete and
something people should strive to achieve.
SonymolS: well; okay so it's a state of mind; so what?
SonymolS: just cuz you can't hold it in your hand,
doesn't mean it's not real
SonymolS: in fact, it's more important that reality;
because like you said it changess your reality
SonymolS: it's so powerful that it can make a blind,
one-legged person more successful than some rich ceo
SonymolS: what do you have against happiness?
SonymolS: don't you want to be happy?
ROmEO VG: state of mind means that its perfectly ok
not be happy. you can be sad nothingg wrong with it.
emphasis on being happy isn't that required.
SonymolS: oh yeah; i agree with that, yup yup
ROmEO VG: people is always trying achieve happiness
and think sadness is not normal but it is.
SonymolS: oh yeah; i totally agree with that; 100%
SonymolS: i'm not disputing thatt; i'm just saying money
isn't that impornat
ROmEO VG: money is important bcoz it gives you
option. its not required but how society is setup now its
impossible to live with no money. if I move amazon jungle
hunting food for myself and then I might not require money
SonymolS: yeah that's true
SonymolS: money is important; but again if you are not
happy and you have money what;s the point?
SonymolS: i mean yes, you are sad once in a while; but if
you are not overall content w/ your life and feel good
about it? who cares?
SonymolS: who cares if you have money?
ROmEO VG: why are you emphasising happiness so
much. I'm trying to tell you is that there should be no
relation being content and being happy or sad
SonymolS: there's no relationship between being content
and being happy or sad?
SonymolS: what're you the dali lama now? hahah
ROmEO VG: no its JoMMy lama :-)
SonymolS: no no; i'msaying you should be content and
feel good about your life; but if that's true that doesn't
mean you are not sad, angry or hurt oncein a while
SonymolS: those are also normal emotions; but being
content w/ your overall life is very very important
ROmEO VG: content has nothing to do with hapinesss.
its just state of mind. you could be content with ur life and
be sad or angry. hapiness does not trumph anything
SonymolS: now you make no sensee
SonymolS: you are saying state of mind, as if it's "just"
state of mind. But state of mind is everythigngg
ROmEO VG: are you saying happy is better than being
sad in some concrete way?
SonymolS: of course; wouldn't anyone rather be happy
than sad?
SonymolS: what is concrete? what is state of mind? why
is concrete better, or more impornat to you than "state of
mind"?
ROmEO VG: exactlyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy thats
what I'm saying is wrong with that way of thinking
SonymolS: huh?
SonymolS: but you are the one who wants to be rich and
unhappy
ROmEO VG: nooooooooooo urn't understanding what the
main reason for the question was
ROmEO VG: i was trying to make a point
ROmEO VG: if I had asked u do u wanna be rich or poor.
everyone will say rich. thats why i asked you that question
SonymolS: oh
SonymolS: okay; well; then..whaatt?? now i'm confused
