| You will communicate with complete honesty your needs, desires, limits, and experience. You realize that failing to do so will not only prevent us from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. |
| You will not try to manipulate me. You will not push to make a scene go the way you feel it should. In other words, you will not top from the bottom. |
| You will keep an open mind about trying things that you am not comfortable with and expanding your limits. You will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being. |
| You will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases me, and will do your best to fufill my wishes and desires. |
| You will not allow yourself to be harmed or abused. You know that submissive does not equal doormat. |
| You will be courteous and helpful to fellow submissives. You will share your knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where you have been. You will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path. |
| You will be responsive to me. You will not try to hide what your mind and body are feeling so that you may assist me in my responsibilities as your authority. You know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect me to know thoughts or feelings which you do not share. |
| You will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. You will not place total blame on me when it is not warranted simply because I am the Dominant. You realize that things may not work out as they should at times, and will do your best to put it behind you and move on. |
| You will give your gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. You will not place anyone in the position of Topping you non-consensually, nor will you give your respect to someone that has not earned it. |
| You know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think yourself a "better" submissive because you choose to submit on a different level than another. You will not be boastful of the experiences you have had as a bottom. |
| You will be obedient to me even if you disagree with what I am requesting. You realize I have your best interests at heart and often know better than you what you need in a particular situation. |
| You know that your actions reflect upon me, and will do your best to help others see me in a positive way. You will not intentionally embarrass or displease me. Above all, you will wear your title of submissive with honor. You will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. You will take pride in who and what you are and will never show yourself in a negative way. |