Activity  Experience
Yes/No 
Willingness
0-5,No 
 

  Face slapping  No   
  Fantasy abandonment  No   
  Fantasy rape  Yes   
  Fantasy gang-rape  No  2  
  Fear (being scared)  No   
  Fisting (anal)  No   
  Fisting (vaginal)  No   
  Flame play  No   
  Following orders  Yes   
  Foot worship  Yes   
  Forced bedwetting  No  No   
  Forced dressing  Yes   
  Forced eating  Yes   
  Forced heterosexuality  No   
  Forced homosexuality  No   
  Forced masturbation  Yes   
  Forced nudity (private)  Yes   
  Forced nudity (around others)  No   
  Forced servitude  Yes   
  Forced smoking  No  No   
  Foreign objects  No   
  Full head hoods  No   
  Gags (cloth)  Yes   
  Gags (inflatible)  No   
  Gags (phallic)  No   
  Gags (rubber)  No   
  Gags (tape)  No   
  Gas masks  No   
  Gates of Hell (male)  No  No   
  Gender change  No  No   
  Genital sex  Yes   
  Genital torture  No   
  Given away to another Dom (temp)  No   
  Given away to another Dom (perm)  No  No   
  Golden showers  No  No   
  Gun play  No  No   
  Hair pulling  No   
  Hairbrush spankings  No   
  Hand jobs (giving)  Yes   3  
  Hand jobs (receiving)  Yes   
  Harems (serving with other subs)  No   
  Harnessing (leather)  No   
  Harnessing (rope)  No   
  Having clothing chosen for you  Yes   
  Having food chosen for you  Yes   
  Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)  Yes   
  Head (receive fellatio/cunnilingus)  Yes   
  High heel wearing  No   
  High heel worship  No   
  Homage with tongue (non-sexual)  Yes   
  Hoods  No   
  Hot oils (on genitals)  Yes   
  Hot waxing  No   
  Housework (doing)  Yes   
  Human puppy dog  No   
  Humiliation (private)  Yes   
  Humiliation (public)  No   
  Hypnotism  No   
  Ice cubes  Yes   
  Immobilization  Yes   
  Including others  No   
  Infantilism  No   
  Initiation rites  No   
  Injections  No  No   
  Interrogations  No   
  Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage  No   
  Kidnapping  No   
  Kneeling  Yes   5  
  Knife play  No No   
 

Definitions

  • NO means I will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
  • 0 (zero) indicates I have utterly no desire to do that activity.
  • 1 means I don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of me.
  • 2 means I am willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for me.
  • 3 means I usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
  • 4 means I like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
  • 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on, and I would like it as often as possible!
 
 

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