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kadalai does not necessarily lead to kaadhal, nor does kaadhal happen only b'coz of kadalai...kadalai illamalum kaadhal aaghalaam, kadalai potum kaadhal aaghalaam....aana, kadalai kim kaadhalukkum difference irrukku..as long as u r kadalai potufying, u do many things intentionally, once kaadhal happens, u simply go on wid da flow...kadalai is not romanticism, kaadhal is romanticism...kadalai is a matter of the head while kaadhal is matter of the heart, kadalai is a skill not everyone has, kaadhal is a poetry hidden in every person...
everything starts with kadalai is what i wanted 2 convey...
paartha udane kaadhal vandaallum still the person has to go & talk.. this is the kadalai phase, the person cannot immediately convey his feelings but after many weeks/months together of kadalai...
so u got the link...
Generalaa Kadalaiku kannu illadadhu nalladhu thaan, ippo laam kadalai is done on chat and phone and not in person. Nerla paartha cha intha ponnudaya/paiyanodaya kadalai podaromnu oru feeling vandudum. Best kadalai is paarkama podarthu thaan.
Kadalai will lead to kaadhal,, Not always. But kaadhal would def have kadalai.
Its more like this anology. Kadalai is friendship kaadal is love. Lovers would be friends. Friends need not be lovers.
Lifela freeaa hapiness kadaikarthu kadalai thaan
kadalai is short term happiness, kaadhal is long term happiness....
.sometimes kaadhal hapens with kannu alla pesharadhu....
sometimes kaadhal happens, when u get to know a person, without kadalai pottufying...
the fact is, u dont need kannu for kaadhal, coz kaadhal is not superficial, teh reason y u need kannu or mmokku or moolai for kadalai is b'coz kadalai is quite superficial...
kadalai may lead to friendship, but not necessarily kaadhal...kadalai is light- hearted fun, kaadhal is something which involves mind, body and soul, serious stuff man...
imagine the person at the other end has a good face and a base...but nuthing beyond that...totally brainless, lacks smartness...then wud u put kadalai wid a person like dat ?? in short, u may admire the looks of a blonde, but certainly wud not wanna get hooked wid her...
one, for putting kadalai, u need to be smart otherwise....two, the person on whom u r putting kadalai shud be equally smart, elz no fun in putting kadalai
kadalai is simply pleasure, kaadhal has both pleasure and pain.