These are just a few thoughts of Mine on what it means to Me to be a Dom /Master.
I think first of all it is a great responsibility to be a Master of a submissive. It takes a lot of work, just as any good relationship does, to keep it viable and ever growing. Not to let it stagnate in the every day mundane things we do. I also believe that it is a great honor to be a submissive�s Master. One that I take very personal, and very deeply. Fore it is to Me a bond, almost as a marriage, between not just a Master and his submissive but 2 people. A bond of love, trust, honor, and respect. To Me if any of these things are missing then the relationship is doomed from the start. The submissive must trust the one they have decided on giving themselves to, and from that trust comes the love. Not just from the submissive to the Master/ Mistress, but also from them back to their submissive. There, I believe, has to be honor on both parts, for what is a true relationship without honor for the one you claim to love and trust? Lastly I believe that there has to be mutual respect. Yes I said �mutual�. If a submissive does not show respect for their Master/Mistress then that is punishable by them, but, if a Master/ Mistress does not show or have respect for the one that has given them their all, then they are not leading their submissive in the right paths to follow. Nor, in My opinion, do they respect or honor themselves. The gift that a submissive gives to their Master/ Mistress, may not be of gold or silver, but it is to Me more precious and should be cherished more than any gold or silver. For the gift they give is of themselves, their heart, mind, and body, they totally relinquish to them; to do with as they see fit. This love and devotion should be held up in the highest regard, respect, and honor. It is a gift that if nurtured and cultivated can be most rewarding for the submissive as well as the Master/ Mistress, but if taken for granted and left unattended, can and will, wither and die, leaving both heart broken, and in despair.
So in parting I say to you Masters, Mistresses, if you have a submissive that has given themselves to you. I charge to you that you should love them, honor them, respect them and cherish them. For the gift they give to you does truly keep giving, for it is a gift of themselves.
These thoughts are from SAT
