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This is where I get to talk about living with and loving a trucker.
It can be hard to do, especially with your spouse coming in and out of town so much. It can be difficult to be any member of a truckers family. Having been on both sides of the fence I have some views on that, but every family is different and has to find their own balance.
Let me give you an example, you come home from work and its been a bad day. The kids have not done their chores, the house is a mess, the washing machine decided to break right in the middle of a load and its leaked all over the floor all day long. The kids have been playing in it, the dogs tried to lick it up and it made them sick all over. All you want to do is order a pizza for the kids and leave them to eat it while you run away from home, oh and they forgot to tell you that your hubby left a message on the machine for you to pick him up at the truck. He calls complaining that he's been waiting hours for you and where have you been, come get him oh and did you cook dinner yet he's starving for some of your good home cooking.
About this time you've decided to call the French Foreign Legion to see if they take women yet, cause it has to be easier than this. So you go to pick up the hubby, after yelling at the kids to get the house cleaned up, take the dogs outside and hose them off, throw some dirty towels on the floor to soak up the water, and try to remember if there's anything in the freezer other than corndogs that you were talked into buying that no one likes.You get behind the most lost person in the world, who got his license in a crackerjack  box and has to slow down at every turn to see if this is where he needs to be.Finally you arrive at the terminal to pick him up, to find him in the middle of a very important conversation with another driver, about something neither of them were there to see but they know all about it anyway. This is where you get into WWIII, when you finally manage to drag him out to the car that is.
So what do you do now, and is it really this bad. In a nutshell , yes it can be this bad, and worse. The birthdays missed, the anniversarys when he's at one side of the country and you're at the other.
Now you're asking yourself is it worth doing this, speaking for myself, oh yes its worth it. Life is about balance, and for every bad time there is a good time, they're just spaced out a little more with a trucker. There are times he calls just to hear your voice, when he brings you a little pack of chocolate covered cherries, compliments of Best Western, or 10 cases of yogurt that another driver was selling because he knows you like it. Thankfully our family likes it as much as I do, there's the time he flies to meet you because he has a few days off and you're layed over. Most of all the times he meets you with a rose when you feel bad and he holds you and tells you he loves you.
Oh yes I would say its well worth it, but then it all depends on you. You have to work at every relationship if you want it to work, and this is no different.
So honey for all the things you've done for me, for all the roses you brought me, artificial because they last forever like our love, this page is for you with all my love.
Remember to be carefull and drive safe because someone at home loves you, and that someone is me.
                                      I love you Brett
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