| DIVORCE |
| Divorce is an ugly word, and ugly proceeding, but now these days, I sit back and try to decide how long a new marriage will last, see with in how many months or years I can come. I know it will end but the question is when. I myself have been married twice and divorced twice. Neither divorce did I want and tried to keep from going thru it. One thing I have learned is Satin is stronger then my ex spouses. You see in my opinion, divorce is one of the most disgusting things before God, he hates it. Divorce was not in Gods plan, he made man and woman, they leave their parents and become one, one in spirit. In Gods eyes, and what God has put together let no man take apart. That includes the married couple. Now we have to go back to other topics that I have mentioned over and over, we are Americans, better then other countries, better then all religions, and the Bible only apply's in our lives in the parts that we want it to. If it is an advantage in our life then the Bible is correct, but if counterdics our personal beliefs or wants or desires then the word has been twisted by others. When we get a divorce or have gone thru one, one of the things we do is go thru the Bible and look for loop holes to justify our sins. God must have made a loop hole for Americans. Look I found it, if a person is unfaithful its grounds for divorce.. quick close the Bible, don't read anymore, we are justified. Right??? WRONG>>>> 1 Corinthians 7: 10-17 tells very clearly, and this is the part I don't understand the misunderstanding of people in America. Here it is black and white. Now it dosn't say it was speaking to everyone but Americans, and later there is a loop hole for us, though we seem to think there is. It says: To the married, I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not seperate herself from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. To the rest I say: If any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is an unbeliever and is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified thru her believing husband. Otherwise your childern will be unclean, But as it is, they are Holy. But if an unbeliever leaves, let him let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances. God has called us to live in peace. How do you know wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord has assigned him, and to which God has called him, This is the rule I lay down to all chruches. Now I don't need to be highly educated to figure this one out. If my wife does wrong and or I do wrong, as long as one is willing to stay in the marriage then divorce is not permitted. It's right there in black and white. Then if she divorces she must remain unmarried. Wow, how many people today do that. We don't have to we are Americans and the Bible dosn't apply to us. Right? The law of the land says you are divorced, you have papers to prove it, but I tell you, you are married in Gods eyes. No man can take apart what God has put together. and if you re-marry you are commiting adultry, in Gods eyes. The letter of divorce that Moses wrote back in biblical times was not a set of divorce papers like today, the were papers that allowed divorce, that only ment that they lived in sperate house holds, but never re married. We as Americans twisted it to make it the way it would fit us and Satins beliefs. And becasue the Law say's it's ok, then that is higher authority the Gods law, right???? Man's laws are inspired by Satin, I don't know what it will take to make people realize that. It's not hard to see but just that alone. God said divorced women should remain unmarried, and the law says it's ok. We go with what is best for what we want. I would hate be there on judement day trying to convicne God that his laws were secondary because we had earthly laws that we prefered to follow. For those of you haveing sex before marriage, the Bible is very clear on that subject, and I don't see how it can be mis understood, adulters and fornicators will not enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Reality check time. God prohibits any sex outside of marriage. How can a man tell you he loves you and cares about you and is so willing to send you to Hell? I feel sorry for people like my ex-wife, so wrapped up in herself and her "all about me" world. Someday she is going to stand before God and have to explain why she didn't have to live by the word of God, why she went through a divorce when the other didn't want to, why she had sex with a married man, commited adutry, and thinks its ok because that's what she wants and everyone is doing it. Congratulations, you get what everyone else gets as well, a life of suffering. A never ending burning. Like her so many people don't think about it. Then one day they will have to face reality, there are no do overs in God's court. No I'm sorry's, He gave you his laws, he gave you a brain to read and learn, and he gave you free will to follow or disobey, you choose to have few hours, days or years of fornication, adutry, over a life of no sorrow, no sin, no pain, a perfect world, you chose to burn. |
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