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| QUESTION: How can I make the day's seem not so empty and the night's not so long when my husband is away? Alone in Kings Bay ANSWER: Dear Alone in Kings Bay, It has been my experience that the more buy you are the faster the time goes. I'd suggest getting a job, if you don't already have one, and join the gym. I'm sure your hubby would be shocked if he came home to a whole new you!!! Easier said than done, I know, but it can be done. Volunteer to help out at the local day care or hospital....send care pcakages and love notes to your husband while he is away and seek support from fellow military wive's, if you e-mail me privately I can give you the web address to some really great online support groups!!! stay positieve, and put your faith in God, he will see you through. When you think he has left you, it is then that he is closest by your side. QUESTION: My Wife is in the Army and she has been in Germany for 8 month's so far without the kid's and I. She act's as if she doesn't want me and the kid's in her life any more, like she's too good for us now. What can we do to maybe help her out of this mid-life crisis and get her to come home and be the same loving mommy and wife she was when she left? Miserable in Missourri ANSWER: Dear Miserable in Missourri, The choice to come back to you, as your wife is completely her decesion to make, and her's alone. You can't make a heart love someone if it doesn't do so on it's own free will. However she DOES have an obligation to her children as a mother!!! When she is ready to "grow up", for lack of a better term, is when you will be able to reach her heart and soul. Until then be patient and put your faith in GOD. I will keep you and your children in my prayer's at home. Do encourage the children to write to her and send her picture's, perhaps something sentimental that would touch her heart. QUESTION: My son keep's asking me when his daddy will come home. He doesn't understand the concept that when daddy leaves for a deployment he stay's gone for a very long time. What can I do to help my son understand? Desperate Mommy of 2 ANSWER: Dear Desperate Mommy of 2, It has been my experience through the advice of my aunt, to make a paper chain, one link for each day that "daddy" is gone. Each day you and your son could tare off a link, and that will give your son more of a physical explantion, as well as give you a little bonding time. QUESTION: My spouse has recently accused me of cheating on him. What should I do? I have never thought about any one else since our wedding day over 3 year's ago. He is now underway and won't dock back home until June. I have suspecion's that someone I presumed to be my friend started these vicious rumor's about me. Should I confront her as well? A Concerned Marine Wife. ANSWER: Somtime's when your spouse is out at sea, or doing a hardship tour thing's will happen. For instance, someone you may consider to be your friend may try and tare your marriage apart. Don't fear!!! The truth shall set you free!!! And if your spouse choose's not to believe you, wait until he/she is face to face with you and can look into your eye's...then all the lie's will be cleared up. Until then, just try and remain focused and keep the thought in the back of your mind that you love your spouse and your spouse love's you!!! My suggestion is to pray, and keep the line's of communication between you and your spouse open!!! Live with all your mind, laugh with all your soul, and love with all your heart!!! |
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