Why Are Women
Turning to Islam?
Courtesy of About Islam and Muslims
At a time when Islam is faced with hostile media coverage
particularly where the status of women in Islam is concerned, it may be quite
surprising to learn that Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world,
and even more ironic to discover that the majority of converts to Islam are
WOMEN
The status of
women is society is neither a new issue nor is it a fully settled one, and
where Islam is mentioned, for many the term 'Muslim Women' prompts images of
exhausted mothers chained to the stove, 'victims' suppressed in a life of
indoctrination, frantic to be westernized and so on. Others will go to great
lengths to explain how the hijaab is an obstacle, clouding the mind, and
comment that female converts are either brainwashed, stupid or traitors to
their sex. I reject such accusations and pose to them the following question:
why is it that so many women who have been born and brought in the so called
'civilized' societies of Europe and America are willing to reject their
'liberty' and 'independence' to embrace a religion that supposedly oppresses
them and is widely assumed to be prejudicial to them?
As a
Christian convert to Islam, I can only present my personal experience and
reasons for rejecting the 'freedom' that women claim to have in this society in
favour of the only Religion that truly liberates women by giving us a status
and position which is completely unique when compared with that of non-muslim
counterparts.
Before coming to Islam, I had strong feminist tendencies and recognized that
where the women was concerned, a lot of shuffling around had been going on, yet
without being able to pin her on the social map. The problem was ongoing: new
'women's issues' being raised without the previous ones being satisfactorily
resolved. Like the many women who shared my background, I would accuse Islam of
being a sexist religion, discriminating, oppressing and giving men the greater
privileges. All this coming from a person who did not even know Islam, one who
had been blinded due to ignorance and had accepted this deliberately distorted
definition of Islam.
However,
despite my criticisms of Islam, inwardly I wasn't satisfied with my own status
as a women in this society. It seemed to me that society would define such
terms as 'liberty' and 'freedom' and then these definitions were accepted by
women without us even attempting to question or challenge them. There was
clearly a great contradiction between what women were told in theory and what
actually happens in practice.
The more I pondered, the greater emptiness I felt within. I was slowly
beginning to reach a stage where my dissatisfaction with my status as a women
in this society, was really a reflection of my greater dissatisfaction with
society itself. Everything seemed to be degenerating backwards, despite the
claims that the 1990's was going to be the decade of success and prosperity.
Something vital seemed to be missing from my life and nothing would fill this
vacuum. Being a Christian did not do anything for me, and I began to question
the validity of only remembering God one day a week - Sundays! As with many
other Christians too, I had become disillusioned with the hypocrisy of the
Church and was becoming increasingly unhappy with the concept of Trinity and
the deification of Jesus. Eventually, I began to look into Islam. At first, I
was only interested in looking at those issues which specifically dealt with
women. I was surprised. What I read and learned taught me a lot about myself as
a woman, and also about where the real oppression of women lies: in every other
system and way of life outside of Islam. Muslim women have been given their
rights in every aspect of the religion with clear definitions of their role in
society - as had men - with no injustice against either of them. As Allah says:
Whoever does deeds of righteousness, be they male or female, and have faith,
they will enter paradise and not the least injustice will be done to them
[Nisaa 4:124]
So having
amended my misconceptions about the true status of women in Islam, I was now
looking further. I wanted to find that thing which was going to fill the vacuum
in my life. My attention was drawn towards the beliefs and practices of Islam.
It was only through establishing the fundamentals that I would understand where
to turn and what to prioritise. These are often the areas which receive little
attention or controversy in society, and when studying the Islamic Creed, it
becomes clear why this is the case: such concise, faultless and wholly
comprehensive details cannot be found elsewhere.