THE GREAT VIRTUE OF LOWERING THE GAZE
- Imaam ibn
al-Qayyim
Taken from 'al-Muntaqaa
min Ighaathatul Lufhaan fee Masaayid ash-Shaytaan' [pp.'s 102-105] of ibn
al-Qayyim, summarised by Alee Hasan
Allaah, the Exalted
said,
"Say to the
believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their private parts;
that will make for greater purity for them. Indeed Allaah is well acquainted
with all that they do." [an-Nur (24):30]
So Allaah made purification
and spiritual growth to be the outcome of lowering the gaze and guarding the
private parts. It is for this reason that lowrering ones gaze from (seeing) the
prohibited things necessarily leads to three benefits that carry tremendous
value and are of great significance.
The First: experiencing the delight and
sweetness of faith.
This delight and
sweetness is far greater and more desirable that which might have been attained
from the object that one lowered his gaze from for the sake of Allaah. Indeed, "whosoever
leaves something for the sake of Allaah then Allaah, the Mighty and
Magnificent, will replace it with something better than it."
The soul is a temptress
and loves to look at beautiful forms and the eye is the guide of the heart. The
heart commissions its guide to go and look to see what is there and when the
eye informs it of a beautiful image it shudders out of love and desire for it.
Frequently such inter-relations tire and wear down both the heart and the eye
as is said:
When you sent your eye
as a guide
For your heart one day, the object of sight fatigued you
For you saw one over whom you had no power
Neither a portion or in totality, instead you had to be patient.
Therefore when the sight
is prevented from looking and investigating the heart finds relief from having
to go through the arduous task of (vainly) seeking and desiring.
Whosoever lets his sight
roam free will find that he is in a perpetual state of loss and anguish for
sight gives birth to love (mahabbah) the starting point of which is the
heart being devoted and dependant upon that which it beholds. This then
intensifies to become fervent longing (sabaabah) whereby the heart
becomes totally dependant and devoted to the (object of its desire). Then this
further intensifies and becomes infatuation (gharaamah) which clings to
the heart like the one seeking repayment of a debt clings firmly to the one who
has to pay the debt. Then this intensifies and becomes passionate love (ishk)
and this is a love that transgresses all bounds. Then this further intensifies
and becomes crazed passion (shaghafa) and this a love that encompasses
every tiny part of the heart. Then this intensifies and becomes worshipful love
(tatayyuma). Tatayyummeans worship and it is said: tayyama
Allaahi.e. he worshipped Allaah.
Hence the heart begins
to worship that which is not correct for it to worship and the reason behind
all of this was an illegal glance. The heart is now bound in chains whereas
before it used to be the master, it is now imprisoned whereas before it was
free. It has been oppressed by the eye and it complains to it upon which the
eye replies: I am your guide and messenger and it was you who sent me in the
first place!
All that has been mentioned
applies to the heart that has relinquished the love of Allaah and being sincere
to Him for indeed the heart must have an object of love that it devotes itself
to. Therefore when the heart does not love Allaah Alone and does not take Him
as its God then it must worship something else.
Allaah said concerning
Yusuf as-Siddeeq (AS),
"Thus (did We order) so that We might turn away from
him all evil and indecent actions for he was one of Our sincere servants." [Yusuf (12): 24]
It was because the wife of
al-Azeez was a polytheist that (the passionate love) entered her heart despite
her being married. It was because Yusuf (AS) was sincere to Allaah that he was
saved from it despite his being a young man, unamarried and a servant.
The Second: the illumination of the heart,
clear perception and penetrating insight.
Ibn Shujaa` al-Kirmaanee
said, "whosoever builds his outward form upon following the Sunnah, his
internal form upon perpetual contemplation and awareness of Allaah, he
restrains his soul from following desires, he lowers his gaze from the
forbidden things and he always eats the lawful things then his perception and
insight shall never be wrong."
Allaah mentioned the
people of Lut and what they were afflicted with and then He went on to say,
"Indeed in this are signs for the Mutawassimeen." [al-Hijr (15): 75]
The Mutwassimeen
are those who have clear perception and penetrating insight, those who are
secure from looking at the unlawful and performing indecent acts.
Allaah said after
mentioning the verse concerning lowering the gaze,
"Allaah is the Light of the heavens and the
earth."
[an-Nur (24): 35]
The reason behind this
is that the reward is of the same type as the action. So whosoever lowers his
gaze from the unlawful for the sake of Allaah, the Mighty and Magnificent, He
will replace it with something better than it of the same type. So just as the
servant restrained the light of his eye from falling upon the unlawful, Allaah
blesses the light of his sight and heart thereby making him perceive what he
would not have seen and understood had he not lowered his gaze.
This is a matter that
the person can physically sense in himself for the heart is like a mirror and
the base desires are like rust upon it. When the mirror is polished and cleaned
of the rust then it will reflect the realities (haqaa`iq) as they
actually are. However if it remains rusty then it will not reflect properly and
therefore its knowledge and speech will arise from conjecture and doubt.
The Third: the heart becoming strong, firm
and courageous.
Allaah will give it the
might of aid for its strength just as He gave it the might of clear proofs for
its light. Hence the heart shall combine both of these factors and as a result,
Shaytaan shall flee from it. It is mentioned in the narration, "whosoever
opposes his base desires, the Shaytaan shall flee in terror from his
shade."
This is why the one who
follows his base desires shall find in himself the ignominy of the soul, its
being weak, feeble and contemptible. Indeed Allaah places nobilty for the one
who obeys Him and disgrace for the one who disobeys Him,
"So do not lose
heart nor fall into despair; for you must gain mastery if you are true in
faith." [Aali
Imraan(3): 139]
"If any do
seek for nobilty and power then to Allaah belongs all nobility and power."
[Faatir(35): 10]
Meaning that whosoever
seeks after disobedience and sin then Allaah, the Might and Magnificent, will
humiliate the one who disobeys Him.
Some of the salaf said,
"the people seek nobilty and power at the door of the Kings and they will
not find it except through the obedience of Allaah."
This is because the one
who who obeys Allaah has taken Allaah as his friend and protector and Allaah
will never humiliate the one who takes his Lord as friend and patron. In theDu`aa
Qunut their occurs, "the one who You take as a friend is not
humiliated and the one who You take as an enemy is not ennobled."
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