CAN I GET AHEAD BY STAYING PUT? QUESTION: I've devoted quite a bit of time in the past year and a half developing a great working relationship with my COO in anticipation of molding a new position within the company. I've been promoted twice. But the COO has now been demoted, and someone I used to work with has been moved above me. I remember his managing style, and I'm very uncomfortable about the lack of possibilities that may present themselves. The crux of my dilemma is that I really enjoy the people working here, but I fear that I'm going to be stuck in my current position. Should I forge ahead, even though advancement may take longer than I believe I deserve? Or should I throw down the glove and make demands, with the expectation to be looking for a new job in the near future? REPLY: You're prejudging this new manager. You may think you know him, but until you give him a chance, you have no idea how well the two of you can work together. Why not just keep working and acting the way you did with your old COO? That's the best way to influence the new guy: Show him that your expectations (and your behavior and performance) haven't changed. You've got to give before you get. In this case, you've got to keep giving at the same level you did with the old COO. If the new guy doesn't recognize your value, then it may be time to move on. But I wouldn't throw in the towel. Your attitude is critical during this transition. It might help to polish up your understanding of how you add profit to the business. I would sit down with him early and ask him how he sees the operations contributing to the company's overall profitability. Drill down to your own job and discuss how you've been contributing. Then pose the big question: How can we work together to optimize our success? Don't blame the new guy for something that hasn't happened. Work to make it good. A lot will depend on you. Best, Nick Corcodilos ASK THE HEADHUNTER(R)