True Love Waits
O.K., so here’s the deal: I have this belief that you should wait to have sex until marriage. I think that is how God intended it, and even if you choose not to believe in God, there are other reasons to back it up to. Some people, like I, prefer to say "making love" rather than "having sex." I think that the use of words determines the type of person and how they feel about it. Sex is meant to be pure. Sex is meant to be a gift from God. It is the power to procreate! God has given us this power… and I don’t think it is our right to abuse it. I got mixed up with someone who abused sex. It was another one of God’s tests. I passed! I held strong to my beliefs, thanks to God, but he felt that sex what a recreation and somewhat of a sport. It was something for him to do. To tell you the truth, unless it’s with my husband, I’d rather be updating my web page than having meaningless sex. I’m sorry if you don’t feel that sex should be saved for marriage. I’m sorry if you don’t believe there is a God. I’m sorry if you think I’m a bitch because I don’t want to have sex with you (unless we are married) even if you are Tom Cruise. I decided, as soon as I really understood what sex was, and without any influence from my parents, that I was going to save sex for marriage. I wrote a letter to my future husband, which is somewhere in my diary, when I was 12 or so. I said in this letter that my virginity was a gift to him for promising his commitment to me and to being faithful in our relationship together with God.
Here’s some points from a pamphlet I got back in 1995 that reinforced my beliefs:
(From: Teen Sex – Why Wait?, a supplement to Youth 95, copyright 1995 Worldwide Church of God)
Teen Sex – Why Wait?
"It Won’t Happen to Me"
This was a story about a girl who got pregnant. She was a good student, with good parents, and went to church, and stuff like that. But one night she got carried away, and she had sex. Want to read the whole story? E-mail me at [email protected] .
"Can I Have a Happy Marriage?"
O.K., so it seems kinda early to plan marriage! Well the guy who wrote this article was a marriage counselor and he said that it’s a good idea to plan your marriage NOW, as in in your Teens. Plan to be faithful to your partner by not having premarital sex and plan to marry someone who has done the same. He said to plan WHEN you are going to marry, like after you graduate from college or after you graduate from high school or after you get your Ph.D. or whatever. He also gave a lot of statistics like that statistics show that teenagers who marry are twice as likely to end in divorce as those who marry in their 20s.
Then he wrote about "finding – and being – the right person" and he even made out a chart of characteristics to look for! Here they are:
O.K. that’s about all that was in that thing. If you are interested in the magazine, a Christian teen magazine, write to PO Box 92463, Pasadena, CA 91109. That’s the address that was on the back of it. I don’t know if it’s good anymore, though. And also, you can call 1-800-625-5588. It’s probably called Youth98 by now! J
And, now… here’s some comments that I received from placing a personal ad at www.yahoo.com. The ad read:
- Woman seeks Man: Seeking reassurance; Lynchburg, OH
Seeking:
Age: 18 Ethnicity: Caucasian (white) Religion: Christian (all denominations)
Education: College Employment: Prefer not to say / No Answer
Profile: Athletic/Fit, 5 ft 7 in, Non-Smoker, Non-Drinker, No children,
Description: Well... I've got this crazy belief that you shouldn't have sex until you are
married and I'm wondering if there are any guys out there who believe this, too. I mean it
seems like there aren't any guys out there who are virgins (not because they can't get any
but choose not to give it away). I just want to find out if there IS anyone out there who
believes that abstinence is the answer. So please write... if you have comments, or if you
are that guy.
Hobbies/Interests: Travel.
Contact: college18fOh Reply to Ad -- View Profile
Date posted: Mon Jan 5 19:29:16 1998 Ad ID:
From: Dmac1
Email: [email protected]
Date: Thu Jan 8 05:09:14 1998
Hi,
Your words paint a rare and impressive picture. I admire your integrity and commitment,
especially since it flies in the face of typical attitudes and behavior. That shows personal strength
and a real commitment to your beliefs.
I believe in purity outside of marriage, believing it's a sin and also believing that promiscuity has
cheapened sex, making it expected and impersonal. The thought of saving ourselves for the right
one makes it so special.
Of course, it's easy for me to say that: I am not a virgin and when I was 18, I was a typically
sex-focused/brain dead male. (I'm 41, too old for you I know, but I don't feel much different than
when I was 20.) I am now searching for Ms. Right and am saving myself for her.
I just wrote to tell you to stick to your beliefs--there aren't enough people being true to their
convictions, even fewer when the convictions require effort and integrity. I hope you find that right
guy--he will be very blessed to have a woman like you.
Dan
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From: beef39
Email: [email protected]
Date: Thu Jan 8 02:56:57 1998
abstinence...that's a good one. all i have to say after reading your ad is good luck!!!!!
i welcome any reply, regardless of hw insulting it may be...
beef39
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From: URJLM
Date: Thu Jan 8 01:59:33 1998
You must have taken idiot pills the morning of the day that you wrote this ad !!
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From: Todd_1978
Date: Thu Jan 8 00:59:44 1998
Hi there,
My name is Todd. I am 19 (almost 20) and live in Winnipeg Manitoba Canada.
I am a virgin, by choice, and plan on staying that way till I find the girl who I will spend the rest of
my life with. You are right when you say that us virgins are a near extinct breed.
If you would like to chat with me, write me back and tell me a bit about yourself.
Todd
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From: UrbanaJoe
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 22:37:21 1998
Hi,
I read your ad and wanted to reassure you that there are guys out there that want to remain
abstinate until marriage. I'm glad you feel the same way. I have a feeling that you're the kind of girl
who likes romantic movies and roses. Am I right?? :) If I am, maybe you should write back to me,
we can talk...I always enjoy talking with someone, and we might have something in common.
Well, write back, and sweet dreams,
Joe :)
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From: UrbanaJoe
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 22:37:01 1998
Hi,
I read your ad and wanted to reassure you that there are guys out there that want to remain
abstinate until marriage. I'm glad you feel the same way. I have a feeling that you're the kind of girl
who likes romantic movies and roses. Am I right?? :) If I am, maybe you should write back to me,
we can talk...I always enjoy talking with someone, and we might have something in common.
Well, write back, and sweet dreams,
Joe :)
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From: goldgrif
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 22:17:49 1998
Mi lady, yes I believe it is ok to wait till marriage I think It is a personal choice, ad you have a
right to decide what is right for you.
I have never dated a lady who was a virgin, but all the ladies I have dated have been abused in
one way or another, and I feel that they felt that after such a thing has ahappened it was the only
way to find someone who would care for them
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From: skywalker_77
Date: Wed Jan 7 22:04:05 1998
for the record--yes!!! I'm 20 and I plan to stay a virgin until I'm married, which is starting to look
like a long time. Doesn't matter, I won't change my mind. I've got more important things in life.
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From: viper_ah
Date: Wed Jan 7 20:10:14 1998
Hi there! I seen your ad under Yahoo and thought I'd respond. I'll tell you a bit about myself
before I answer "the question." :)
I'm 19 years old, tall (6' 4") and slender with blue/green eyes and brown hair. I grew up in the
northwestern part of the state and now am currently attending Wright State University and
majoring in computer engineering. I love to spend time outdoors whenever I get a chance to get
out there. I enjoy running, bicyling, camping, riding and driving horses, astronomy, basketball, and
volleyball. When I can't get outside, I love to read our mess with the computer.
As for the answer to your question, I believe whole heartedly that abstinence is the answer until
your married. I want to have myself "established" (house, good job, and be married) before I
decide to have children. Sex is something that should be sacred between two people. I know that
I'm in the majority and I'm proud to say it. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin!
BTW, I checked out the homepage...I like the feature on the page "Get a date.", but it doesn't
look like it is very popular yet...It's the first time that I've seen that on a page.
Whenever you get a chance, you can write me back if you want to...If you don't that's fine too.
Have a great day!
God bless you!
Aaron
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From: chris_dog
Date: Wed Jan 7 19:34:08 1998
I can understand what your talking about. I'm Chris. Write back if you get this and are interested
in getting to know someone like me.
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From: derf21
Date: Wed Jan 7 16:46:58 1998
Hey there! This is your lucky day. You have found yourself a completely "no sex til marriage"
gentleman. About me...I'm 6'1" 240 dark-brown hair well built wear glasses. Senior in accounting
@ Ohio U. in Athens, OH. Pursuing a professional career in auditing or consulting (whoever gives
me a good position:-)
I like to play music, watch movies, do outdoor stuff and mainly have a good time. Also attend
church regularly as it helps me hold on to my faith. I've been a lonely guy looking for a great
woman to come along...just haven't met her yet. So if any of this stuff is of interest, I'd be happy
to have a chat sometime!
PS--am into exchanging pics
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From: MatthewTV
Email: verucchi@telapex
Date: Wed Jan 7 16:34:58 1998
I can't tell you what a relief it was to read your ad. I am 23 and a virgin. I have many friends at
Mississippi State University that are also virgins BY CHOICE. Please do not give up on your
quest. There are guys out there, and they will be impressed by your own virginity so please hang
on to it. I was appalled at how hard it was to find a girl on this thing with the same views that I
have. Please write if you want to talk. God bless and good luck. MatthewTV
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From: Jayson_Saylor
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 16:27:48 1998
Hi ther, I can really relate to what your saying although I'm not "that guy". I am a born again
christian though and a "new creature in Christ". I don't know if you would consider that a born
again virgin or not but I do and have not had sex since, nor will I before mairage. I am a 25 year
old guy I attend Lighthouse ministries in Cincinnati, and work as a server @ the Holiday Inn. I
would be interested in hearing your input and corresponding with you further.
'Til Then,
Jayson
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From: arizonadreamer
Date: Wed Jan 7 11:01:21 1998
Hi Again,
I was looking around on the web to find something additional for you. Check out Ron
Hutchcraft's home page. It can give you alot of advice on many matters. I copied this part for you.
Again, good luck to you!!
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
Here is what I found:
Super Glue
------------------------------------------------------------------------
Our work with young Native Americans has only increased my wife's appreciation for Indian
jewelry. One night I was busily involved in a conversation, and Karen was over in the corner and
she was just quietly working on some jewelry, actually she was painstakenly trying to glue some
tiny little pieces of turquoise into a bracelet setting. And then I heard, "Oh oh." I said, "What
happened?" She said, "I got some glue on my finger." I said, "OK." She said, "It's super glue."
And instantly her thumb and her forefinger had become part of the bracelet. Oh no, the ads were
right, that stuff bonds instantly. It bonds permanently. We had our own ER, and spent probably an
hour trying to unglue Karen - a lot of hot water, home remedies, carefully pulling. I'll tell you it was
painful. But finally we were able to give Karen back her thumb and finger.
Well I'm Ron Hutchcraft, and I want to have A Word With You today about Super Glue.
Our word for today from the Word of God comes from I Corinthians, Chapter 6. I'll begin
reading at Verse 16. Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her
in body. For it is said that two will become one flesh. But he who unites himself with the Lord is
one with Him in Spirit. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his
body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Now these are words from the inventor
of sex. And it reveals something that many people just don't realize about sex until it is too late.
Sex is emotional and spiritual super glue. It deeply bonds people to each other whether they are
aware of it or not. And like Karen and her ring, you will bond - even if you never meant to. And
like Karen, it is painful to separate when you have done something that permanently bonds. This
one flesh is quoted from God in what He says about a married couple usually. "Let no man
separate that couple," He says. See sex is designed by the Creator to be inside a lifelong love
covenant called marriage. It is designed to permanently bond people. But when you do it outside
of the marriage covenant it still has all its bonding power. It deeply attaches you soul to soul with
your sexual partner - even if it is the totally meaningless sex with the prostitute the Bible says. You
can't stop the bonding.
Now, tape bonds to whatever you stick it on, but if you stick it to different surfaces over and
over, eventually it won't stick any more. People don't realize that every time they get really
involved physically with someone they are giving away more of their "bond-ability" - their ability to
give and receive lifetime love. And then in the one relationship you really want to work, the
bonding is much weaker than God ever created it to be. And when you try to end a relationship
that has been heavily physical, it is like trying to separate two pieces of paper that have been glued
together. It rips both people apart, because two people who have been sexually committed were
never meant to separate.
If you ask Karen, she would say, "Be very very careful with super glue, or you will end up
bonded when you really shouldn't be, and it will hurt a lot to separate what's bonded." See that is
your Creator's advise about sex. Keep it special - keep it saved for your lifetime partner. Don't
push the limits physically. And if you have already gone too far, come to Jesus cross, and hear His
promise, "I will remember your sins no more." Let Him begin to restore your emotional and
spiritual virginity. Whatever you have done before today, from today on, doesn't ever have to
matter again. Jesus can make you clean!
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From: arizonadreamer
Date: Wed Jan 7 10:05:14 1998
Hi Friend!
First, I must say that are plenty of guys in the "V" category!! I'm in my thirties and I'm proud to
say that I am one of them. No, I'm not ugly, not a geek, not a dork, or any of those things. It's by
CHOICE.
I have to give the credit to being a Christian. I KNOW that waiting until marriage (your lifetime
partner) is what God intended. Just think about all the problems we have today;
AIDS, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, emotional problems . . etc. The solution (God's way) is
actually very simple: Stay a virgin until you are married. Marry a virgin. Stay faithful to your
spouse. Case closed. Can it be any simpler?
Anyway, good luck to you in your choices. Just remember, if a guy really loves you, he will
respect you and your decisions. Also remember that for all the people that you know that haven't
waited, well you can become like them (non-virgin) any time you want, but they can NEVER
become like you!
If you ever want just a plain friend, or an anonymous "cyber-shoulder" to cry on in Arizona, feel
free to write to me. Again, good luck to you!!
AZD
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From: Thomas_007
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 10:02:56 1998
Well, you came said that pretty well, didn't you? I'm responding to your add because I too believe
that you should WAIT till Marriage. I am Christian, Pentecostal to be exact. I like to hike, bike,
read, chat, yak, and Write "SOME" poems. I LOVE Camping, Christian Music (that's all I listen
to), and Animals. I have some cats, a guinea pig, and ducks. Yes, I said Ducks. :) By the way, my
name is Thomas (Tom if you prefer). I am 20 years of age. :) If you have ICQ, you can reach me
@ 2816746. My alias is SoG (Soldier of God). My webpage, IF interested is @
http://www.bright.net/~tomhunt/sog.html. Oh yeah, I live in a small town known as Jeromesville.
It's about 60 miles SOUTH of Cleveland. Ummm, I don't know where Lynchburg, Ohio is, but I
do know where Lynchburg, VA is... :)
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From: Fafnir777
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 03:13:33 1998
In answer to your question in your ad:
"Why are there so few guys who are Virgins?"
That is very easy to answer.
Boys are taught at a young age, that it is "unmanly/wimpy" to be a virgin, either through the words
of their older peers, or their actions.
I'm 29, and I wish that I was a Virgin still. I did not become a Christian until after I had already
lost my Virginity. If you're still a virgin, save it! It will be worth it. The Girl that I lost my Virginity
with, did not love me at all-I was just a one night stand for her, and that Hurt me emotionally for a
long time.
Sex is a spiritual thing created by God to KEEP a Man and Woman together-it's not THE reason
to be together! I was involved in a strictly sexual relationship, and The Woman in question and I
were planning to get married. It fell through after 6 month's, and we never got married. Thank
God! He gave me enough rope to hang myself with that one! Once bitten, Twice Shy?! I learned
a major lesson-Don't sleep with anybody that you don't plan to spend the rest of your life with!!
So now, After 3 years of Abstinence, I'm going back to college to get my degree. This way, I will
be able to Provide for a Family, and Once I have a decent Job, THEN I'll look for my Mate.
Hang on to your Virginity, Find someone who is Educated/has a good job, and look for someone
who is JUST LIKE YOU! otherwise, you'll be trying to "change them", and they'll be trying to
Change you! Don't believe the hype, Opposites only Attract in MAGNETS!
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From: epsilon2000
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 02:46:12 1998
You asked: "I just want to find out if there IS anyone out there who believes that abstinence is the
answer. So please write... if you have comments, or if you are that guy."
For me, faithfulness is the answer. I have already made the commitment of faithfulness to my
future partner, even though I haven't met her yet.
If you have access to a Web browser, you can read about me and my search for a partner at .
My e-mail address is [email protected]. I would really like to hear from you.
Don't worry -- you're not alone!
Bye!
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From: gpweasie
Email: [email protected]
Date: Wed Jan 7 01:00:48 1998
Believe it or not there are a few of us. I am not religious, I think everything up to the point is all
good, but I want my wife to be my one and only. Do you play tennis or golf by chance?
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From: _gigno_
Date: Tue Jan 6 23:24:33 1998
well I'm not a virgin but I sort of wish I was. The first time I had sex it did not mean anything, we
both just wanted to have sex. In fact I only made love to one women in my life. but she did not
feel the same. She just wanted sex.
I have used and been used so I know both sides of the story.
I don't think that I can wait till I'm married though, because I'm not going to get married. I have
friends that are , and they are not very happy. I really hope one day to find my one and only, but I
do not have much luck with relationships. Its like once you have sex with a person, everything
changes your friendship turns into something more. Then it turns into something else. Usually
something bad. In my case anyway. If I had to do it all again, I would not have had sex with them.
I do not see them at all anymore, and I miss them I miss thier friendship.
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From: SweetYoungGuy
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 22:57:43 1998
Hi there. Saw your ad and just thought I'd let you know that I feel the same way. I'm 23 and I
have NEVER been intimate with a woman before. I plan on staying a virgin until I'm married (only
the LORD knows when that'll be). I've had a few relationships, but in the end they always broke
my heart. Well, if you still want to talk, let me know.
Christopher
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From: Spirit_of_one
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 22:51:23 1998
Dear angel.....
Your ad caught my eye....I think that your beliefs are wonderful...and that you are a rare breed....I
would like to reassure that there guys out there who are caring enough to be virgins. Like me for
instance.....I have chosen not to sleep with any girls until I am married. I hope that you keep your
beliefs and NEVER let any guy take that away from you. I would love to hear from you....
Wes
1-513-231-0586
Cincinnati, Ohio
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From: techie70
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 22:13:06 1998
Hey!
I think that your attitude is great! there is absolutely nothing wrong with abstinence. Sex is a way
for two people who love each other to completely give themselves to one another after marriage.
too many people abuse it and it's now a thing for personal pleasure whereever and whenever.
It's great to see you thinking like this.
Hope to get a chance to talk to you.
bob
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From: Rev_Ron
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 20:21:31 1998
Hello:
I am writting you to say "GOOD JOB".
There are not any many who will take a stand like your and I am glad to see that:-)
I am to old but I just had to let you know I think waiting till your married is the right thing to do.
Good luck with your serch ;-)
Ron
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From: HappyHigh
Date: Tue Jan 6 20:14:52 1998
That's not crazy. I didn't wait I though I would but hey I made it till 22 and that's more than most
guys can say. I am going to marry her though. She's my best friedn and I couldn't imagine it being
any better than it is. Just be you though okay. Later
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From: vaald
Date: Tue Jan 6 18:57:18 1998
take the pill, make all men wear rubbers, dont fuck anyone you would not like your mother to
meet,(unless your drunk and really horny- it happens), quit worrying about this shit and have some
fun in life!!!!
spore
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From: at_1998
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 18:47:45 1998
I thought I'd write, because your beliefs are sound. I'm not a virgin, but I've only made love to one
women. She was my girlfriend for a long time, unfortunately it didn't work out. I strongly believe
you should love the person you share your body with. I know I'm not your type, but have faith,
there are plenty of guys out there who feel the same way you do. Good luck and Godspeed!
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From: udayton
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 17:58:29 1998
I'm still a virgin and it's not because I can't get any. I haven't met the right person that I share my
gift with. Sometimes I'm torned, because I'm 25 years old and still haven't found the right person.
I feel that I should be having sex but whenever the oportunity presents itself, I don't go through
with it. I think it's because it would be just sex, and that's not what I want. I want to make love,
and that takes time and commitment. I'm not sure if that means marriage, but some sort of love
and committment should be there. I thought I would just reply to your ad because it's a very good
question. There aren't many male virgins especially my age, and it can be very hard, but in the end
I know I'm doing the right thing.
George
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From: Nator24
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 17:49:44 1998
I agree wholeheartedly. I am glad that there are women like you in the world today. I am a
Christian, and I believe that not having sex until you are married is the only way to believe. I am
24 and still a virgin, and, like you said, chose to, not because I was forced to do so. I have even
had girlfriends who have offered, but still I refused. I just wanted you to know that I concur. Email
me and we can chat. Hope you have a great day.
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From: big00000_91
Date: Tue Jan 6 17:19:53 1998
well your right
and i belive as you do
i hope you are more lucky then i in finding
that spichal person
so very hard
one must wounder if its all worth it at times
but it may be true the best things comes to those who wate
best wishes
jay
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From: ladiesluv2i
Date: Tue Jan 6 17:01:50 1998
I have grown to believe that abstaining from intercourse is good and safe. Although I believe that
two people can share other fun which is fulfilling, fun, but yet still safe.
What are your thoughts on this?
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From: exorcir
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 16:45:11 1998
I was amaized to read your comments i thought that i was the only guy in thye world who stiil
thought that waiting for marrage was the right thing to do. I'm glad that ther actually are women
out ther who think that too, it's also nice to know that you are in Ohio to, btw i'm in Youngstown,
Hope to hear from you soon! @-->>--
Marc
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From: AttheMovies
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 14:49:39 1998
Hi,
I am responding to your personal and yes there are still men out there who are virgins and think
that they should wait until marriage, becuase I am one of them. its kind of tough saying this
considering I am 24 years old, but I haven't found that right girl yet. To tell you a little bit about
me, I am a gentlemen, 5'7" with brown hair and brown eyes, 140 pounds, I live in the Cincinnati
area and have all of my life. I like reading, hiking, camping, writing and doing just about anything
else. If you would like to talk please email me at [email protected] and we can talk. Talk to you
soon.
Dave
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From: tsensure
Date: Tue Jan 6 14:49:19 1998
Yes. you found one. Please see my ad.
type Tsensure in the keyword box and click the search box.
Ron
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From: crazylegs_98
Date: Tue Jan 6 14:22:00 1998
They call me crazylegs.
I'm 20 years old.
I have been a christian for 6 years today.
I believe that there are some guys that are still virgins, I am myself. Not because I couldn't get any
but because I choose to keep it until I get married' for that is what the bibile says. I am sorry I
don't know my email address right now. because we just got the internet. I just have to get it off of
my aunt. but as soon as I get it I will send it to you.
I will tell you more about myself when I learn the address.
Thank you for your time.
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From: euph17
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 14:16:15 1998
I am that guy. Sex is a beautiful thing to be shared between a husband and wife AFTER they have
made the vows of marriage. One's virginity is the most sacred physical gift a person can give, and
it should be saved for the most important relationship in one's life. If interested, write back. Oh,
and I am a born again christian. Hope to hear from you!
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From: argentinian2
Email: [email protected]
Date: Tue Jan 6 12:07:42 1998
HELLO.
just want it to respond to your debate about guys being virgins,not going to far i am one of
them,and proud to be just havent' found that special woman to give what it should be sacred and
to share between them two only.feelproud to be who you are and stand for what you believe is
right.I am sure i am not the only one but i believe there are not many considering all the ads tv
campaigns that encourage sex outside the marriage instead of teaching abstinence .good luck and
thanks for bringing that issue on the net.
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From: Strag
Date: Tue Jan 6 11:34:19 1998
hiyas! i believe that sex should be reserved for marriage as well! :)
please write back!
(damn, i just love these really long messages! :P)
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And, also, I was very happy to see my sister’s Teen magazine (February 1998, page 68) was promoting the idea of virginity! They had a three page article on the subject!!! And how you should stick up for your beliefs!! Yipee!!
Here’s there advice for sticking to your guns:
It also said:
Virginity is a choice about half of all teens are making now, and it doesn’t come with the reputation of being a geek or a prude anymore. It comes with the attitude that you’re in charge of your decisions and your life.
My feelings:
Abstinence kicks Ass!
Abstinence is the answer!