<neek> I don't think a woman who strips in front of her graduating class has given up her privacy.
<Nuntar> <Hokulani> well, what were you hoping to get out of those conversations with her ?
<Nuntar> <Nuntar> get to know each other, build up a closer friendship
<Hokulani> ah :)
<Hokulani> so you're unsure how to respond to her latest message then?
<Nuntar> yes
<Hokulani> well, what exactly did she say
<Hokulani> ?
<Nuntar> hard to explain without giving you the whole conversation, which there isn't much point to :P and thanked me for some good wishes I sent her about her relationship
<Hokulani> :)
<Hokulani> is there any particular reason you would like to be friends with her?
<Nuntar> her posts make her come across as a very interesting and thoughtful person
<Hokulani> how so?
<Nuntar> that's very hard to answer :)
<Hokulani> try :)
<Nuntar> well, she stands out because you can tell she puts a lot of thought into what she writes -- a lot of the people there are very nice but they're young and not especially mature for their years, so you get a lot of silliness and humour. which I don't complain about, but it doesn't make me feel any sort of connection with the people posting it
<Hokulani> :) Kinda how I felt for you during those early years in #almea
<Nuntar> awwwww :)
<Nuntar> yeah, but unlike you with me, I don't want a romantic relationship with her :P
<Hokulani> of course :P
* Hokulani hugs you tight
* Nuntar cuddles you
<Hokulani> I love you so very much
<Nuntar> what brought that on? :)
<Hokulani> why? Cant I express how much I love you whenever I feel like it? :P
<Nuntar> of course you can :) it just seems strange, when I've done nothing except tell you about another friend of mine
<Hokulani> ah well, I guess it brought up memories of when we were still just friends :)
<Nuntar> ah :D
<Nuntar> are those happy memories?
<Hokulani> Oh yes :)
<Nuntar> then I'm glad I brought them up :)
<Hokulani> :)
<Hokulani> awww! Neek's son is so adorable!
<Nuntar> :D
<Hokulani> And, http://img.penguindeskjob.com/Grey-nom-nom-nom.jpg
<Nuntar> heh
<Nuntar> so..... you felt you wanted to be closer friends with me :) how did you go about it?
<Hokulani> well, I've been dropping hints like crazy for a while, I did kinda stop while I was with Ossie, but I still cared deeply about you enough to constantly bring you up around him
<Nuntar> :D what sort of hints?
<Hokulani> I dont really remember anymore :P mostly just PMing you everyday and talking to you about things, cant really remember what I did :P
<Nuntar> :D
<Nuntar> so even when you were with Ossie you were really still in love with me? :P
<Hokulani> Enough to have lots of Skype talks with you while he was sitting next to me :P
<Nuntar> :) I bet he liked that
<Hokulani> :P
<Nuntar> why did you go out with him, then, if it was me you really wanted? :P
<Hokulani> well, for one
thing, he was right there with me and you at the time were interested in
<Nuntar> yes
<Hokulani> I did really love you, but I really didnt feel like I had a chance with you back then :(
<Nuntar> because I was in love with Delalyra, or were there other reasons too?
<Hokulani> because you were so far, and that I had been dropping hints for so long and you never seemed to have picked up on them
<Nuntar> they must have been very subtle hints :P you can't remember what they were at all?
<Hokulani> well, I do remember once on Skype, you were crying and I was trying to sooth you with a few songs
<Nuntar> :D that was sweet of you. but I guess I didn't know it was meant to be a hint because it could just have been friendship
<Hokulani> :)
<Nuntar> I always thought of you as a very good friend
<Hokulani> :)
<Nuntar> still do, in fact :P
<Hokulani> :D Yes, but with a little something more as well right ;)
<Nuntar> yes, the whole taking each other's clothes off and wanting to have kids together :P wouldn't do that with just any friend
<Hokulani> of course :D
* Hokulani kisses you
* Nuntar cuddles you
<Nuntar> but I remember we had a long, deep and passionate kiss when we were just friends :)
<Hokulani> well then, I look forward to the day when we can have one of those now that we are much more than friends :D
<Nuntar> that will be nice too :) I won't need to be so shy any more
<Hokulani> :)
<Hokulani> I might still be a bit shy if when we decide to go beyond kissing :P
<Nuntar> in the hotel, I only touched your arm because I wasn't sure how you'd take it if I went any further than that
<Nuntar> I'll love you all the more for that :D
<Hokulani> :)
<Hokulani> Did you want to go further that night?
<Nuntar> sure :)
<Hokulani> :) I'm not sure if I would have wanted to though. But oh well :P
<Nuntar> so how would you have responded if I'd slid a hand under your clothes?
<Hokulani> I might pull your hand out, but that would be just a natural reaction I guess :P
<Nuntar> :D and are you going to do that next time?
<Hokulani> I hope not :P
<Nuntar> :D :D
<Nuntar> and what if we had stayed just friends? :P what would have happened next time we met up then?
<Hokulani> I would probably be too busy getting my hands under your clothes to give much notice :P
<Nuntar> really now :) even if we'd decided to be just friends?
<Hokulani> maybe :P I dunno
<Nuntar> heh
<Hokulani> I'm just happy it turned out differently :P
<Nuntar> I know you are :D
<Hokulani> :D And you?
<Nuntar> and me what?
<Hokulani> are you happy we became more than friends?
<Nuntar> do you need to ask?
<Hokulani> no, but I want to :P
<Nuntar> :)
* Hokulani kisses
<Nuntar> I feel a mixture of emotions :) I'm very happy to feel so close to you when we talk, and it makes me smile when I think about how much you love me. at the same time I'm excited when I think about getting to be with you again in person and what we're going to do, and about living together and having kids. but also a little nervous :P
<Hokulani> heh :D I feel the same
<Nuntar> what in particular do you feel excited or nervous about? :)
<Hokulani> well, nervous about traveling thousands of miles to a foreign country to be with you is top for me :)
<Nuntar> :D
<Hokulani> I've never traveled that far east in my life
<Hokulani> or noth
<Hokulani> *north
<Nuntar> technically, the
<Hokulani> yeah, but I've always traveled West to reach them :P
<Nuntar> how far apart are we in fact? do you know if there's an internet site we can plug in our locations and find out?
<Hokulani> google earth maybe :P
<Hokulani> cant access it right now though :(
<Nuntar> I can't see anywhere you can do that
<Hokulani> well, I know the directions tab gives you distances from two points
<Hokulani> havent tried international ones though
<Nuntar> however, this site does it: http://www.indo.com/distance/
<Nuntar> so, would you like to guess what the distance between us is?
<Hokulani> At least 4 thousand?
<Nuntar> 5221
<Hokulani> wow :0
<Nuntar> ....almost exactly *half* my distance from nortala
<Hokulani> at least I'm closer ;)
<Nuntar> yes :) that's nice
* Hokulani hugs
* Nuntar hugs you
<Nuntar> now, which of us do
you think is closer to the
<Hokulani> I dont know :P I know my present distance has increased by over 2 thousand miles
<Hokulani> did you catch that last line?
<Nuntar> no
<Hokulani> <Nuntar> now, which of us do you think is closer to the
<Hokulani> <Hokulani> I dont know :P I know my present distance has increased by over 2 thousand miles
<Nuntar> :)
Nuntar> technically, the
<Hokulani> yeah, but I've always traveled West to reach them :P
<Nuntar> how far apart are we in fact? do you know if there's an internet site we can plug in our locations and find out?
<Hokulani> google earth maybe :P
<Hokulani> cant access it right now though :(
<Nuntar> I can't see anywhere you can do that
<Hokulani> well, I know the directions tab gives you distances from two points
<Hokulani> havent tried international ones though
<Nuntar> however, this site does it: http://www.indo.com/distance/
<Nuntar> so, would you like to guess what the distance between us is?
<Hokulani> At least 4 thousand?
<Nuntar> 5221
<Hokulani> wow :0
<Nuntar> ....almost exactly *half* my distance from nortala
<Hokulani> at least I'm closer ;)
<Nuntar> yes :) that's nice
* Hokulani hugs
* Nuntar hugs you
<Nuntar> now, which of us do
you think is closer to the
<Hokulani> I dont know :P I know my present distance has increased by over 2 thousand miles
<Hokulani> did you catch that last line?
<Nuntar> no
<Hokulani> <Nuntar> now, which of us do you think is closer to the
<Hokulani> <Hokulani> I dont know :P I know my present distance has increased by over 2 thousand miles
<Nuntar> :)
<Nuntar> well, the answer is that I am, but only by 500 miles -- 6600 to 7100
<Hokulani> oh wow :D
<Nuntar> indeed :)
<Nuntar> and you know what else is 7100 miles to the nearest 100?
<Hokulani> 7,100.... no wonder Aireen is severely jet lagged
<Nuntar> heh :)
<Hokulani> what dear?
<Nuntar>
<Hokulani> :D
<Nuntar> so when we go there, you'll have a much shorter journey than me :P
<Hokulani> oh yes :)
<Nuntar> but going to the
<Hokulani> :P
<Nuntar> did you know that
<Hokulani> no :P how is that important?
<Nuntar> you said it's the furthest north you've ever been :) I just wondered if that frightened you
<Hokulani> well, as a numerical figure, not as much :P But no doubt when I look at it on a map relative to where I am, I may freak out :P
<Nuntar> :D
<Hokulani> btw, I just remembered something that *has* freaked me out
<Nuntar> oh?
<Hokulani> In the graduation pics of Nikki,
there are bamboo and palm leaves behind her. Is, that normal for
<Nuntar> it's a university, darling :) they have to have fancy gardens
<Hokulani> but surely palm trees and bamboo wouldnt grow that far north? Bamboo doesnt even grow where I am
<Hokulani> unless those pics were taken in a greenhouse
<Nuntar> no, they weren't
<Hokulani> wow,
<Nuntar> oh, cool :)
<Hokulani> heh, who is in Goose bay?
<Nuntar> no-one that I know of
<Hokulani> :D
<Hokulani> It says here that its 54 degrees now. Is that cold for you dear?
<Nuntar> just trying to give you a feel for where we are
<Nuntar> um...... that's around 12C?
<Hokulani> yes
<Nuntar> that's right. and no, that would be a pleasant spring day
<Hokulani> oh dear :)
<Hokulani> ah, looks like we're going to be off now
<Nuntar> awwww
<Nuntar> ah, just found this
out -- the furthest north *I've* ever been is
<Nuntar> awwww
<Nuntar> ah, just found this
out -- the furthest north *I've* ever been is
<Nuntar> so, no advice on what I should do about Kathlin? :P
<Hokulani> oh dear :P
<Hokulani> Not at the moment dear, and I'm afrad I have no more time :(
<Hokulani> *kiss* I'll talk
to you tomorrow love