I was at Trichy a few weeks back, and in the middle of
a hectic schedule in my hometown, I happened to chance
on a man on a bicycle. It was the local postman.
Though a number of people have been in that dress, the
routine has been the same. Check the bundle in the
hand, figure out the next address, push the bicycle to
that house, ring the bell, say �Sir Post�, drop the
letters in and repeat process!
It has been sometime since our house has been visited
by one belonging to this community. Well, forget the
fact that the Readers� Digest still gets to our
doorstep through one of his ilk at Madras, but that is
it. The Internet has taken over everything else, and
with postal stamps costing a little less than a
fortune, courier services have replaced the tinkle of
the Postman�s bells.
Yesterday, I moved some of my old stuff from my Aunt�s
place to my house. I was sifting through the bundle
when my eyes fell on a bunch of envelopes, most of
them grayed out with the passing of time. The bunch
held old letters and greeting cards. A huge card that
was presented by my �best� friend Ravishankar for my
birthday, letters written by my �first best� friend
Santhosh, by friends Aravind and Debannita, cards
wishing me on my first job from my brother Raj and
Sister-in-law Gayathri, a letter from my Head Of The
Department at College thanking me for the donation I
had made to College with my first salary� Our family
friend Praba Aunty wishing me on my birthday all the
way from Michigan, sister Vishali and friend Vasanth
wishing me a Happy Birthday when we all used to work
at Sankhya Technologies at Madras and letters from
friends Conrad, Kannan and many others. When I went
through these letters again, as I touched them, I
suddenly felt a bonding with the persons who had taken
the pains to think about me, and to go to the extent
of sending me a note. They had to first remember me,
then get the time, buy the card or take time to write,
put it in an envelope, and post it.
Today, it has all become so simple, and detached� the
Internet has fast replaced the beautiful art of letter
writing. A few clicks on the keyboard, and a mail is
ready. If email was not the best thing to happen to
sentimental idiots like me, e-cards have made matters
even worse. Gone are the days when I used to enjoy my
birthdays with the huge pile of cards that used to
build at my doorstep starting a few days before the
D-day! Now, I spend my time at the yahoo, hotmail and
rediffmail inboxes waiting for friends to remember me
and send me an automated electronic card. Although
they are cute and touching, they seem distant. There
is no thrill like when the postman rings the doorbell
to hand you the day�s post.
I receive hundreds of mails daily coming to one of my
many mail IDs. But then, there is nothing to beat that
one letter I used to receive for the week from my
friend Santhosh holidaying in Kerala during School
Summer vacations! Somehow, an email does not convey
emotions. As far as I believe, emoticons do more
damage than mails without them.
I have put off for this weekend a new task that I
sincerely hope I would have the time to do. I would
buy a few sheets of paper, and write. I would buy some
postage stamps, and send some letters to all those
people whom I could think of. But then, I know very
well that I just might not do it! It is too
time-consuming! And for someone who used to churn out
letters to cousins and friends at the rate of 5
letters a week, each letter containing 12 sheets of
paper, the demise of the art of letter writing has
meant much more than just receiving colourless email.
Sitting in front of the computer for about 28 hours a
day, and using the in-built software of notepad,
wordpad and textpad, I have forgotten to write with a
pen on paper! The other day, I was penning the lyrics
for a song, which was to be played as part of my
alumni function at school, and was astounded at how
difficult I found writing! Sitting at home, with a
computer that is vacationing in Mars, I was forced to
use pen and paper. Try as I may, and the words would
just not flow onto the paper.
But still, I cherish to this day those days when the
postman�s bicycle bell was one of the most exciting
things for a boy. He brought the letters from far away
friends, letters from Foreign countries had Foreign
stamps on them, and he brought the Annual Exam results
and the information whether I had passed or not! He
brought the greeting cards for my birthday and he
brought home the magazines I had subscribed to! I have
to admit, I miss the postman these days�