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Think you was born gay? Many feel the same as you do, or have felt the very same. One should never call a child gay. The children are uninformed, undiagnosed and untreated mentally about issues of homosexuality causes. Will you also understand some important issues involved? Not all people are the same. You could understand how many people become confused differently about sexuality issues. Post Traumatic Stress is the first term to become familiar with. This can help one understand that events from long ago can effect us later even if we do not remember the event itself. One important thing to understand is that an event could have been stimulating and not thought of as a bad situation when it happened. Not all post traumatic stress disorders are caused from a traumatic event. Yet an event from our past forgotten could later cause severe post traumatic distress. Many children do not remember all things when they were four or five, even younger too. As a child, children kiss each other, some times that was enough for a three year old to become attracted to the same gender that perhaps kissed them or touched them. You may have forgot the event, but once aroused through outside stimulation, you will have a formed memory. That could be very disturbing if it happens to surface and leaving you thinking, "Were did this come from?" This causing sever post traumatic stress in some. Of course there are tragic times when someone of the same gender may have forced a sexual act that caused even an attraction to the same gender. Yes children often forget, or block these tragic experiences. Often will be effected later with sexual attraction issues ranging from attraction to certain acts, organs, genders. They all stem often from memories forgotten. That is if you think you was born gay? Believe it or not, some people do choose the life style of homosexuality. Children do not choose. They are effected and that causes homosexuality either innocently or not. There are different people like I said. So there are even other issues that may or may not have any influence to make you think you was born gay. An important one is Gender Dysphoria(gender nonconformity). This is when a child wants to be the opposite child they was born. Yes it is a separate issue, and that is not the same as being a gay person or homosexual. Many people think it is the same. Gender dysphoria(gender nonconformity) could be born in a child or a child may have learned characteristics that mimic a gender dysphoria(gender nonconformity). In either case, this alone could even cause many to think they are born gay. Some children may act like the other gender they was born, but still want to be the gender they was born and do not want to be the opposite gender at all are also often considered to be homosexuals. That is not always correct. Not all sissy boys want to be a girl or tom girls want to be a boy. Point is that gender dysphoria does not mean homosexuality. Homosexuality does not mean gender dysphoria(gender nonconformity). Gender dysphoria(gender nonconformity) is born in some children. Some children have learned characteristics that mimic a gender dysphoria(gender nonconformity). It needs repeated doesn't it! |
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