This is a page I put together to tell you
a little bit about
the special man who holds the key to my
heart.
His name is Robert McPherson,
and he is from Hawarden, Iowa.
He's a drafter by trade
and a gentleman by inclination.
Robert McPherson :-)
Robert and I first met online in early October,
1998.
I felt an immediate attraction,
but held my thoughts inside because
Robert had a girlfriend at the time,
and things looked pretty serious between
them.
Very shortly after that first icq conversation
I became involved with someone else.
In early February, 1999,
my whole world was shattered into a million
pieces.
Todd, the man I thought I would be
spending the rest of my life with,
changed from a sweet, gentle man full of
love
to a horrible, evil man of hate.
It was at this point that Robert re-entered
my life in a big way.
His system had crashed and we hadn't been
in contact for quite awhile. When
a message
from him came up on icq we started talking
again.
Although I was in deep, emotional as well
as physical pain
over my recent loss, the feelings I
had for Robert back in October
suddenly came to the forefront again.
I asked him how things were with him
and his girlfriend (fully expecting
to find out they were married).
Needless to say, I was not disappointed
to
discover that they had split up.
But, at the same time, I was feeling the
pain he was going through,
and all the feelings of insecurity, and
lack
of self worth that naturally follows when
you are
betrayed by someone you
love and trust.
Robert and his dog Simba
Over the next while I leaned on Robert alot
for strength. It was like I could feel his
arms around me,
holding me up when I really wanted to
just drown in my sorrow and fade away.
But there was something about
him that kept telling me more and more that
losing Todd was the best thing
that ever could have happened to me.
If not for that painful episode in my life,
I never would have come to know Robert
in the way I know him now.
He is a wonderful, loving, caring and sensitive
man.
In June 1999, Robert drove up to where I
was
living in Kitchener, Ontario, Canada.
That was the first time we met face to face.
My heart skipped a beat and my knees felt
like Jell-O.
There was no doubt in my mind that this
was the man for
me. I looked into his gorgeous blue eyes
and saw all the love
that was there for me.
My daughter and I went back to Iowa with
Robert.
Robert and I got married on October 5, 1999
in Orange City, Iowa.
That was the most beautiful day of my life.
Running a very
close second is the day the doctor told
us we are going to have
a baby in the Spring. The due date was May
8, 2000.
In March, 2000 we moved up to Canada, and
settled in the cozy
city of Elliot Lake, Ontario. It was there
that our son was born on April 27.
This was the crowning glory to our already
perfect romance.
True love can definitely be found in the
most amazing places.
Coming soon, as a link from this page, will
be Robert's
Eagle Collection.