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Parents
and Significant Others
The
great intimidators
The
only combination worse than having either parent and child or a
pair of significant others in an MSF class together is to have
that combination trying to teach each other how to ride a
motorcycle in private.
The
more experienced of the pair invariably means well but based on a
huge desire to please them the less experienced one tends to try
too hard (or tries to strut beyond their ability.)
Relative
to an MSF class, despite instructions to the contrary, in the
event one of them has an an accident (a dumped bike, for example),
it is unnatural for the other to stop and stay in place while an
instructor takes care of the situation - resulting in loss of
control on a range and potentially a second incident involving
other students.
But
when this combination of teacher/student tries to do their thing
(teach/learn motorcycle riding) outside of an MSF environment is
when things can really get dicey. Despite best intentions, the
more experienced of the pair can well put the less experienced in
a great deal of danger, or simply push them farther than they are
ready to go and that desire to please mentioned earlier then can
become critical.
An
MSF Instructor's certification does NOT make him/her better than
anyone else. It does NOT mean they have all the answers. It does
NOT mean that without it nobody else can teach a newbie how to
ride successfully. What it means is that the MSF instructor has
the training and experience (and a safe range and safe equipment)
to do at least an adequate job of it. [I know, I've read about and
seen MSF instructors who are great intimidators, too.]
If
you can, let the professionals do their jobs. And, avoid the
parent/child or significant others in the same class temptation.
I
recently received a letter from a young lady who had just taken an
MSF class and earned her motorcycle endorsement. On a bike
borrowed from a friend, she visited her parents to show them that
she had just become what they both were - a motorcyclist. The
parents decided right then and there to teach their daughter how
to 'really' ride a motorcycle. Some of the 'stuff' they fail to
teach you during an MSF class - like how to ride in the grass.
This, because 'if you are ever forced off the road you need to
know how to handle a bike in the dirt.'
She
nearly hit a tree at 20 MPH and dumped the bike. Serious but
quickly mending injuries resulted to the girl along with a $400
repair bill for the friend's bike.
Need
I say more?
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