Entrance to Merida hq is at the wraith-sage in Blasted Lands. Track
him there, or astral to 6.wraith, or put a astral char there. 
Once at him, open mirage, and ne into the hoe room. 
open doorway at recall, ne to note room.
s, open e, e from recall to donation.
n, op heavenly, up to deity room(trappyplace)

Illum hq, s 3e of gr'staka, keyword sepulchery
note board is invis at recall.

Daemonite hq is all n from entrance to Realms of Worship, 
op retribution, west. make sure to have fly and hide to avoid 
trackers and dts, and hope that invisible div ret doesn't hit you.

Eclipse mud is much better, and is at eclipse.tdz.net port 1111