Back on New Zealand soil again 1999. After I returned I stayed with my brother and his wife Megan I know I stayed longer than I should have but that can't be changed now. My first thing to do was to go on the dole and make fure that I had money comming in, as I hadn't brought much with me as I didn't have much time to prepare, life was not going to be easy I could see that. I knew hardly anyone and didn't have a job and hadn't lived in Auckland for 16 years. My first job was with the Australian consulate working in the visa section, doing electronic visa's to Australia. It was only a tempory job so it didn't last as long as I would have liked. The woman that worked there had been there for some years so they were in a routine and didn't seem to enjoy having new faces around I spent alot of time on the internet talking to heaps of guys from around auckland, one of the guys told me of a job going at the local sauna so I applied and got the job and am still there. Working over 50 hours a week at night. I spend alot of time chatting to customers and helping out where I can. Cleaning is not part of my job which is a good thing as I know what it is like to clean and just not my thing at all. I enjoy my job and see alot of really nice bods during my shift and alot of really horrible sights as well. I don't have sex with my customers, as many would believe it is a easy picking ground well it isn't for me as it is like having sex with your friends. As I said I spend time on the net chatting to friends and both my ex's from Sydney. I have had a boyfriend since returning to Auckland, a baby at 28 and happens to be Australian but that didn't last long, he just didn't feel for me the same way I felt about him, so I got shown the door. We have kept in contact and still chat, I helped him get some work at the sauna so I do get to see him from time to time. He has since got himself a new man and spends alot of time with him. I on the other hand have met someone else whom I do really like but we are from very different worlds, he was in a long term relationship as well and broke up from him 8 months ago, I have just spent some time off work and was able to spend most of my time with him. I have had to suppress any feelings for him as I know that we just couldn't get it going, I even thought of changing my shifts so that I could spend more time with him. But we will see what happens, it is nice when he wants to see me and makes a point of asking if he can come around, normally it has been me doing all the chasing. He is 35 which is closer to my age and we have alot in common, more than you would expect.
I moved from my brothers house to a house with friends in Greenlane, where I stayed for around 9 months. Beautiful house, very large and good flatmates ( as they go), from there I moved into a boarding house in the heart of the city, where I stayed for almost 2 years. It was all I needed so I was quite happy with it and was able to save money ( which I don't normally do) and buy new things. I have not long since moved again into a house just up the road from work, it has almost gardens which I have been working on, starting from scratch so I don't know the outcome yet. I asked customers and friends for cuttings and have been working hard getting them into the ground. So maybe once it is all done I will put a pic on here so you can see all my hard work. I live with a guy that helps out at the sauna from time to time, he is a plumber and has had flatmates that haven't pulled their weight around the house or paid their rent, I think he knows that I will pay my rent on time and when it is required
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