| Thursday, June 7th 2001 Happiness Quotient: 5.5 Yesterday was another glorious Korean holiday. It wasn't glorious for any other reason except that I didn't have to go to work. I didn't do much and spent a lot of time beating myself up for being such a coward on Tuesday afternoon. In addition to my first job, I've been teaching four hours a week at Ajou University. It's a job that really makes my "great schedule" at my contracted place of employment worthless. Every Tuesday and Thursday afternoon, when I could be out enjoying the wonders of Korea, I'm preparing to face yet another group of children who are forced to learn English. I gave my month's notice two months ago and went to pick up my "final" paycheck after work on Tuesday, excitedly looking forward to the holiday and freedom from responsibility for a full 36 hours. Well, needless to say, my position hasn't been filled and my boss sat me down at the table and offered me something cold to drink. I knew I was in trouble. My ability to say no when I want to has never been admirable but I was determined to succeed on Tuesday. I failed. "I'm begging you." He said, over and over, and I just crumbled. Iwas so disgusted with myself when I left I wanted to hit my head against a brick wall. Trying to forget my doormat nature, I caught a bus into Seoul to pick up my Alien Registration Card, something that I've been avoiding for weeks. Not including the transport time, it took me all of 90 seconds to reclaim my passport (always a good feeling) and pick up my ARC--my ticket to trust with lots of business owners. After that I went to Tongdaemun market and walked around the crowded aisles of vendors selling various things that I don't need but would love to own. So much great junk! I saw a two Korean women get into a vehement argument during what I think was price haggling. The customer turned to me and started yelling insults about the vendor, who also decided to tell me what she thought. I didn't understand a word but it was very funny. One thing that really bothers me about shopping in Korea, both at the markets and in stores, is that it's customary to follow the customer around as they look. For someone who hates shopping with other people in general, it's hugely annoying. Thankfully, I found a woman who was closing up her stand for the day and who didn't really want me there anyway so I had some time to browse without being trailed. I bought myself a nice sundress....a great find for a mere W8,000. After shopping I headed to Kagnam where Alison lives and we went out and had dinner and drinks and a good time. It's nice to have a friend from home nearby,with whom you alreadly know you like. Well, it's about time for me to head to my stupid second job. I get W30,000 an hour (about $25) and you think I'd appreciate it. I don't. I'm trying to work up the nerve to tell my boss that it's not my problem he couldn't find anyone and that he'll never see me again. Wish me luck. |