DO be compassionate and empathetic
DO be kind, loving and considerate
DO be thankful and express gratitude
DO forgive others for their shortcomings
DON'T be mean, cruel, or insensitive
DO be open-minded and impartial
DO consider what people have to say before making a decision
DO be careful-get the facts, including opposing viewpoints, before making a decision (especially blaming or accusing others)