"What's the point of dating if you don't see yourself marrying him/her?"
Many say dating can be fun. Much of the fun though, God has created to be enjoyed with your one and only spouse. Had this fun been meant to be enjoyed outside of marriage, why then is it wrong to have fun with other people when married? The fun is meant for you and your spouse while the waiting period called singlehoodedness increases your appetite that your fun may be enjoyed to the fullest.
Dating is a privilege to get to know someone to see if they are fit to be the one you will spend the rest of your life with. Also, to see if you are fit for that person.
"I kept my virginity [& purity] because I know that I will truely love my future spouse and for him/her, I wish to give my all, not my second best, not my left overs." -someone I personally know.
Through all the heartaches, the pain, the drama, the loneliness, the darkness, God will see you through and when the wedding day arrives, you will know that it was all worth it.
Sex is best with the one you love, the one who loves you, the one who gave their heart and all to you, the one who will die for you, and the same one is worth dying for.
Save yourself. If you're a virgin, save it. It's the best thing anyone can ask for. If not, saving what you have from this day on will give you the respect that will help your future spouse forgive and look past at your past. Love sees beyond the mistakes in the past.
Don't play out your honeymoon. You don't want it to be just another night doing what you've always been doing. You want it to be special.
"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."
How perfect would a relationship be if the person you fell in love with saved their purity for you and only you because they knew in the past that they would fall in love with the right one? The earlier you begin to create that perfect love, the better it will be when the love comes to you.
If our sexual purity has no value in it and we can give it out to people randomly or whenever we please, why is rape a crime and why is being unfaithful to a spouse immoral?
There's value in your sexual purity. The more a car is test driven, the less its value become. Same for sexuality. Who'd buy the car that's been test driven over and over again over a brand new one?
"It's worth the wait." -from a friend whose been thro' it all
