May 29, 2005
“Our God Rewards Us”
Various Scriptures
Trauma Care for the Soul:
The Fulfilling Power of Service
A.
Service
is more than what we do. It’s more than
our attitude about serving. It’s about
Who we’re serving and the wonderful things He has in store for those who serve
Him. Look at verse 35 - “Be dressed ready for service and keep your lamps
burning, 36 like men waiting for their master to return from a wedding banquet,
so that when he comes and knocks they can immediately open the door for him.” The
idea here is to not fall asleep on the job but to live and to serve like the
Master could return at any time. We’ve
allowed ourselves to fall asleep on the job – we don’t live like we really
believe that Christ will return someday and that He will reward us for serving
Him according to His will. (NEW
SLIDE) We don’t want to fall into the trap of thinking that any service
we do ostensibly for Him counts – it’s only what we do that’s according to His
will. And His will is to find us on
the job and ready when either He returns or He calls us home. Wedding banquets in Jewish culture could
begin in the middle of the night and last for days on end, so servants never
knew when their master might return.
Jesus is saying that His servants will be blessed IF they are ready for
service and act immediately at His bidding.
E.Illustration – Warren Wiersbe wrote, If life is
to have meaning, and if God's will is to be done, all of us have to accept who
we are and what we are, give it back to God, and thank Him for the way He made
us. What I am is God's gift to me; what I do with it is my gift to Him (as
cited on PreachingToday.com). Refusing
to serve is a rejection of God’s will for our lives. So let’s add this equation up – relationship with Jesus Christ
plus obedience in serving according to His will equals His reward and blessing. Relationship with Christ plus refusing to
serve according to His will equals judgment.
Relationship with Christ plus serving but not according to His will
equals judgment. Seems to me like the
only way we win is if we have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, obey
Him in serving according to His will, and receive His reward and blessing. That’s also the way we’re happiest and most
fulfilled, because it means living the way God created us to live. (NEW SLIDE) If we come to Him with
an attitude of obedience and service, and then we follow through on that, we will
know the blessing of living the way we were created to live.
A.
One of our biggest hang-ups when it comes to
serving is that we think that we’ve got to be perfect or professional quality
at what we’re doing before we’re qualified to serve in the church. And unfortunately some Christians and
Christian authors make us feel like that’s true. But it’s not. Gigi Graham
Tchividjian wrote, For years I never felt I measured up to all I thought the
Lord wanted me to be, or all I thought I should be. Satan convinced me that
since I wasn't "perfect," I had no right to minister to others. Then
one day, my children brought me a bouquet of flowers they had picked. I hugged
each child with joy. As I tried to arrange the flowers in a vase, I discovered
my children had picked no stems, just blossoms. I laughed--I had been blessed
with their gift of love, however imperfect. It was then I realized we don't
have to be perfect to be a blessing. We are asked only to be real, trusting in
Christ's perfection to cover our imperfection (as cited on
PreachingToday.com). She’s right. Getting it right doesn’t mean
perfectionism. (NEW SLIDE) Getting
it right means finding out what the gifts God has given you are, finding out
where the church needs people with your gifts to serve or even what new
ministry He wants you to start, and then serving out of love for Christ. That’s it.
No standard of perfection, and if anybody tells you or tries to make you
feel otherwise, tell them that’s not what the Bible teaches so it’s not
true. All of us can please our Master
and receive the reward He has for us by serving in our area of giftedness to
the best of our ability and constantly striving to develop our gifts.
B.
A
key passage to this discipline of service is Ephesians 4:11-13. He
handed out gifts of apostle, prophet, evangelist, and pastor-teacher to train
Christians in skilled servant work, working within Christ’s body, the church,
until we’re all moving rhythmically and easily with each other, efficient and
graceful in response to God’s Son, fully mature adults, fully developed within
and without, fully alive like Christ.
It is the responsibility of apostles, prophets, evangelists, and pastors
and teachers to train you and to keep training you to serve. That’s where God has called them to
serve. (NEW SLIDE) It’s your
responsibility to serve where God has gifted you to serve. And knowing this is the way God created us
is comforting, because it means that we don’t have to worry about being
something we’re not. If you’re not a
teacher and you try to teach, it’s frustrating and draining and burns you
out. If you’re not gifted with
leadership and you try to lead, it frustrates you and those you are trying to
lead because you wind up freezing the progress of the church rather than
helping it move forward. If you’re not
gifted with hospitality and you try to be the consummate host or hostess,
you’ll only frustrate and stress out everyone involved. You get the point? (NEW SLIDE) Be who God created you to be, and don’t
worry about what you’re not.
C.
That’s
been an incredibly difficult truth for me to grab hold of. Those who study such things say that if you
spend more than twenty percent of your serving time outside of your area of
giftedness, you’ll get frustrated and burn out and hurt your church. I know that’s true because I’ve tried
it. That’s why I work to spend eighty
percent or more of my ministry time leading and teaching and preaching, because
those are my areas of giftedness and that’s where I feel most effective and
fulfilled. 1 Corinthians 12:4-11 helps
us understand this. Now there are different kinds of spiritual
gifts, but it is the same Holy Spirit who is the source of them all. 5 There are different kinds of service in
the church, but it is the same Lord we are serving. 6 There are different ways God works in our lives, but it is the
same God who does the work through all of us.
7 A spiritual gift is given to each of us as a means of helping the
entire church. 8 To one person the
Spirit gives the ability to give wise advice; to another he gives the gift of
special knowledge. 9 The Spirit gives
special faith to another, and to someone else he gives the power to heal the
sick. 10 He gives one person the power
to perform miracles, and to another the ability to prophesy. He gives someone else the ability to know
whether it is really the Spirit of God or another spirit that is speaking. Still another person is given the ability to
speak in unknown languages, and another is given the ability to interpret what
is being said. 11 It is the one and
only Holy Spirit who distributes these gifts.
He alone decides which gift each person should have. That is a very powerful and yet freeing
passage. (NEW SLIDE) God
gives us the gifts we’re to use to serve in the church, so we’re free to serve
as He created us to serve. When we
use the gifts He has given us to serve Him according to His will, we’re like
the servants awake and ready for His appearing.
D.
Illustration
– Oswald Chambers, in his book So I Send You, wrote, There are no
such things as prominent service and obscure service; it is all the same with
God (as cited on PreachingToday.com).
One of the problems we face is that all of us want to be significant,
which is okay, except that we tend to equal significance with prominence. We think that only those who are up front or
in top leadership positions are significant.
But as Chambers so eloquently tells us, all service that is according to
God’s will is pleasing and acceptable to Him.
Don’t you think that the One who treasures us enough to save us and to
gift us and to allow us to participate in the salvation of the world will
accept our gift of service back to Him?
(NEW SLIDE) Serve according to your giftedness and according
to His will and He will bless and reward you.
And you will have the joy of knowing that you made a difference for
Christ because you allowed Him to use you for His glory.
E.Illustration – Evangelist
D.L. Moody, who God used to bring tens of thousands to Christ, wrote, I know
perfectly well that, wherever I go and preach, there are many better preachers
known and heard than I am; all that I can say about it is that the Lord uses me
(as cited on PreachingToday.com). All
of us can have the joy of knowing that God uses us for His glory. All of us can have the joy of developing and
using our spiritual gifts and developing them some more. (NEW SLIDE) One of the great
truths of having spiritual gifts is
that we’re called to do whatever we can to nurture and develop them and to
become better and better at using them for God’s glory. That’s not perfectionism – it’s the desire
to become the person God created us to be and to be of greatest usefulness for
His kingdom. That’s how servants
operated. They wanted to be of greatest
use to the master, so they did whatever they could to hone their skills and
gifts so they could fulfill their potential.
Last week, Southside Church of Christ had an interesting saying on their
signboard – (NEW SLIDE) “There is nothing more common than
unfulfilled potential.” In the
church, that’s very true. Not because
we have bad intentions, but because we don’t understand the truth that God
expects us to train and develop and grow and use our spiritual gifts to bring
the most glory to Him. Scripture
compares Christians functioning in a church to a human body. Athletes spend a lot of time and effort and
even money developing their bodies in order to bring glory to themselves. Think about how much glory we can bring to
God by spending time and effort and money developing our gifts and using them
according to His will so that the Body can be all He created us to be. That’s what the spiritual discipline of
service is all about. And that’s what God
is calling us to.
F.
Illustration
– Deborah Smith Douglas wrote, For many years, I have attended midweek
Eucharists at St. Bede's Episcopal Church in Santa Fe, New Mexico. One thing I
love is the hand-lettered sign that hangs over the only door into the
sanctuary: SERVANT'S ENTRANCE. There isn't any way in or out of that church except
through the service door (as cited on PreachingToday.com). May all of us have a serving heart and
attitude and may we do whatever it takes to serve Him according to His will in
the life of our church! Or, as Ignatius
Loyola prayed: (NEW SLIDE) Teach
us, Lord, to serve you as you deserve,
to give and not to count the cost, to fight and not to heed the wounds, to toil
and not to seek for rest, to labor and not to ask for any reward save that of
knowing that we do your will (as cited on PreachingToday.com).
A.
Please
bow your heads and close your eyes out of respect for each other’s
privacy. Let’s spend a few quiet
moments listening to the Holy Spirit speak to our hearts about this spiritual
discipline of service.
B.
What
has God been speaking to your heart this morning? If you’re willing to use your spiritual gifts to serve God in the
life of our church, please stand now as a sign of that surrender and
commitment. Let’s pray.