| The Hair Affair I remember growing up with a fervent desire to grow my hair long. I spent most of my youth trying to escape my Dad's scissors. Unfortunately I was met with resistance at every chance I thought was right to let my locks grow. It wasn't until I was in high school that I actually got away with growing it out somewhat. I have always regretted not being able to have long flowing hair when I was young. Long hair affords such a diverse opportunity for styling. It also generally looks good on those still in their relative youth. After high school I spent most of my years sporting a rather short hair style due to my employment. Once I saw The Last of the Mohicans many years later I decided to grow my hair longer and try to make up for lost time. It stayed that way for about ten years. As I got older, and closer to transitioning, I wore my hair gradually shorter and shorter. I still had shoulder length hair as I approached my surgery date. The night after my acupuncture treatment I had a hair appointment.I told my stylist that for the next two weeks I wasn't going to be able to fuss with my hair. I felt the only option was to cut it short. She was delighted to oblige me and gave me a wonderfully layered cut that left a pile of hair on the floor. When she was done it was short and very sassy. I simply loved it! Sadly, that was the best it looked for about the next three weeks. My hair has always been an important aspect of how I define myself. I'm fortunate that I still have a healthy head of hair. Sometimes I wonder if it would have been possible for me to transition without it. Going to the salon has always been a treat for me. This cut (and highlights) was a wonderful treat because it exuded confidence and panache. I felt like a different person. I don't believe one should ever underestimate the power of hair! As corny as it may seem this was another event along the way that allowed me to go forward without any trepidation whatsoever. Montr�al here I come! BACK NEXT |