| "Other's Happiness = My Happiness" �If I did something which makes others happy, I would feel even happier. When I have a gathering and someone feels moody, I would have the urge to bring him into the happy atmosphere.� No matter whether it�s work or play, Shingo will feel uneasy if someone is moody. He will try means to make the person happy. He may come up with some mischief, and through the noisy but healthy quarrel and small fight over the trick he played, everyone�s mood will turn for the better. Having someone like Shingo around, even if the atmosphere is moody, it will become relaxing and happy in seconds. Even if the tension is high, as long as one person is feeling down, the whole atmosphere will be affected. If you ignore that person�s feelings and pretend that nothing has happened, you will feel guilty for enjoying yourself without thinking of others. Soon, you will feel unhappy too. Hence, if you want to enjoy yourself, you have to make sure that everyone is feeling good. For someone to lighten up the atmosphere, the most important trait will be humor. However, one will have to use humor appropriately to prevent making things worse and agitating the person. This is the special quality that Shingo has. In this world, there are people who make jokes about others, without taking into considerations whether he will hurt someone. Instead, they will view themselves as interesting and humorous. �I feel angry when someone says something which dampens the atmosphere, even when it has completely nothing to do with me.� |
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