HIM Forum logo by realitydistortd
|
Go
|
New
|
Find
|
Notify
|
Tools
|
Reply
|
|
|
Mod Elite Sniper Division   |
Aaww.. it´s ok honey!
 I revealed a piece of my soul, too, here: http://heartagram.infopop.cc/groupee/forums/a/tpc/f/550100886/m/9741024531 It takes courage, believe me! ________________________________________________________________________________  |
||
|
|
Striving for mediocrity in a world of excellence. [/wit]   |
 I noticed, but I decided to tactfully avert my eyes. You're a very brave woman indeed. ________________________________________________________________________________  |
||
|
|
Wallpaper-put-upper. Official member of the ATHT-fanclub.   |
Do you lie to anyone on a regular basis and if so why?:
No I don't. I don't like to lie. But when I actually lie, I find it easy. people always believe me. Are there people you pretend to like but really can't stand? If so Why do you lead them along?: Yes there are people who I can't stand - but I do not pretend I like them. I ignore them. And if they try me, they find out I don't like them. (some of them know VERY WELL that I don't like them) Have you ever lied to a friend/family member to spare their feelings? Tell us about it and your reasons why: That depends on the subject. If my sister asks if she looks fat in those pants, and she does, I say yes. But I also say something like "They're too tigh, but if you wear that belt and that shirt with the pants, ypu can't see that". I'm not gonna send her out of the door looking ridicoulus because I lied. Are their people in your life that you present yourself falsely to to make yourself look better than them? Be honest!: I don't think so. Some years ago, I did. But I let that mask fall long ago. Nowadays I am myself, and people might like it or not. The fact is, that if there's some person who I want to be better than, I find out something that he/she sucks at, and with that knowledge I'm better. Example: X is really smart and popular and bla bla. But her body's ugly, and she sucks at maths. And, I don't like her(as she very well knows) I'm good at maths, and my body definately looks better than hers, even if it's ugly. I don't boast about things like that, but I like to think that I'm better than them if they really annoy me. How many versions of you are there? and describe them.(Meaning to different people do you present yourself in different ways?): I only think I've got three "versions". With my real friends I'm completely myself. With my family, I hide most of my feelings, and also how much I really skip school. And the third version is the version my friends at school see - they see a well-behaved girl who could never ever freak out, who has never ever slapped someone, who will never ever do stupid things. They also see my real me, but they do not know my past, and I hade my feelings for them. and finally... Is it possible to be 100% real in today's society? ...and tell us why you have come to this conclusion.: I think it is possible. Even though people might switch masks throughout they day, onw for work, one for home, one for grandma, one for bla bla and so on, there is always some place where you can relax and be yourself. I am myself with my real friends. Also at home, but I hide parts of me. I think all people do that. Did you ever lie or were fake to someone and regret it? Yes, because I usually don't do this. If I come home early from school and lie to my mom that our last classes were cancelled, I don't regret it. I don't feel ba dabout things like that. But if it was something worse, I probably would. I have never done that, though. Also: Were you ever caught being fake or lying? What happened? Did it effect or change you in anyway?: I've never been caught in lying. I don't lie often, and not without having reasons. A good liar remembers what he/she has lied about earlier - cause else you'll get caught. |
||
|
|
King of the Freaks The Thorn in Kezza's Side   |
This thread is really coming along. I am glad to see there are some honest people left in the world.
BTW a typo made it to page 3. The next person to answer the questions please fix the last question from Also: Where to Also: Were It's driving me nuts. |
||
|
|
The Guardian Angel Kezza's protegée  |
Do you lie to anyone on a regular basis and if so why?:
I have been known to lie. the only reason I lie is because I am sheilding someone from something that is going to hurt them. I have lied a few times because I have not been comfortable telling the truth, but I have always corrected it when i felt that I could trust that person enough to tell them the truth. Are there people you pretend to like but really can't stand? If so Why do you lead them along?: No. If I don't like someone, then I tell them. I am forced to pretend to like people at work, but i always tell them that I am only doing this to keep up apperances. Have you ever lied to a friend/family member to spare their feelings? Tell us about it and your reasons why: Indeed I have, everyone has. I just would prefer not to talk about it to people that I don't know/care about. Are their people in your life that you present yourself falsely to to make yourself look better than them? Be honest!: I am very proud of myself, why the hell would I need to pretend to be someone else? Anyone who knows me will tell you that I am not false, nor would I pretend to be for the sake of people I don't like thinking I am cool. You either like me, or you hate me. I don't really care. How many versions of you are there? and describe them.(Meaning to different people do you present yourself in different ways?): Well, I don't have any different versions. I am the same on here as I am on anything I am on. this is the only message board I am signed up to, for reasons that I will keep to myself. I am on MySpace and anyone who has added me on there and talked to me on here will know that I am exactly the same. and finally... Is it possible to be 100% real in today's society? ...and tell us why you have come to this conclusion.: Depends on who you are. Some people are afraid or are embarrased by who they are so they pretend to be someone else just for the sake of being liked. It's only going to bite you in the ass though. If you pretend to be someone you are not, and then you are found out to be like that then you are only going to find yourself disliked by the majority of people. Did you ever lie or were fake to someone and regret it? No. If I lie, then it is for a reason. I have never been fake, stop asking me the same fucking questions! I have lost my patience with this already. Also: Where you ever caught being fake or lying? What happened? Did it effect or change you in anyway?: Since I have not been fake then no. Like it or lump it. I don't care anymore. ________________________________________________________________________________  Thankyou Fallin for my awsome Sig and Avi. |
||
|
Caffeine-Powered Zombie Slayer |
Sometimes I indulge in a little falsehood for entertainment purposes. I've got an excellent example to illustrate this admittedly somewhat unsavoury occasional proclivity. A rather noxious person recently joined a forum that I regularly post on. I could wax scornful for hours about what an insufferable, drab, and awful person he is, but suffice it to say that he ruffled not a few feathers with his outlandish claims to Z-list celebrity status, and his vomit-inducing appeals to the ladies. Let's call him, hmmmm, I think, after discarding several other options, that Stilltrying works rather nicely. Gosh, running a background check on him was rather amusing - it's difficult to pick a favourite, but after careful consideration, I'd have to say that the Deadsy boards are really up there. Seems he's leaving a quivering, glistening trail of bullshit -- and financial fraud -- in his cyberwake. But that's neither here nor there, is it? Anyway, I suffer with chronic insomnia (completely unrelated to the state of my conscience, however *winkwink*), so I tend while away the small hours on the forums. I get bored. So I decided to have a joke at his expense. It's not as though he could claim the higher moral ground, after all. I PMed him, with some random sarcastic observation, and thus ensued the giggles. After just five or six exchanges, during the course of which I offered absolutely no personal information, he asked me for my picture. Oooh, how gauche is that? *titter* I dodged that bullet, however, with my inimitable cunning and wiles. But no, his lechery knew no bounds, apparently, and I was assaulted some few exchanges later by the eminently tasteless 'So how are you doing today? Or rather, who are you doing?' (I've added the appropriate spelling corrections and punctuation). Well. If that's not an invitation to shenanigans, then I'm not sure what is. Oh, it was something to behold! I managed to persuade him, with the crafty application of coarse language and a few salacious suggestions (in monosyllabic words, obviously), that I was involved in a, mmmm, rather interesting romantic entanglement with another board member. Oh, my ribs ache with the ghost of the hilarity. *wipes away a tear* To give some credence to the whole affair, I started a thread expounding the joys of this fictional affair. We all had a bit o' the proverbial fun. Like all good things, however, the joke ran its course and passed on into the annals of Well, what did you expect, you cretin? I wonder if Stilltrying feels a bit miffed by it all. Well, I say I wonder, but I don't. It just seemed an appropriate way to end my tale. ________________________________________________________________________________  |
||
|
|
Mod Elite Sniper Division |
Aawww.. I so weeesh English was my first language!
 ________________________________________________________________________________ |
||
|
yo ho and a bottle of rum   |
>.< me too! back to topic, now... Do you lie to anyone on a regular basis and if so why?: Not on a regular basis, I lie from time to time, but that's it. Are there people you pretend to like but really can't stand? If so Why do you lead them along?: No way, I'm actually know for being "not delicate" when it comes to telling someone I'm fed up with them. Have you ever lied to a friend/family member to spare their feelings? Tell us about it and your reasons why: Yep, I'm sure I've done it a few times. Can't think of good examples now, though, godsdammnit >.< Are their people in your life that you present yourself falsely to to make yourself look better than them? Be honest!: nope, I'm already better than them! XD no, not really, but I just don't care about who people think is "better" or "worse" than me. How many versions of you are there? and describe them.(Meaning to different people do you present yourself in different ways?): Oh, man, I'm totally skyzophrenic (or however the hell it's spelled). I act quite different when I'm with different people. With my friends (we've kown each other since we started school) is probably the only time when I'm really myself; with my friends from the Uni I'm still myself, but I cool down. The there's this group of girls I know, and everytime we meet I end up acting like a teeniebopper >.<. I guess it's always me, but I change de degree of maturity/teeniebopperism deending on who I am with. and finally... Is it possible to be 100% real in today's society? ...and tell us why you have come to this conclusion.: Not 100% but you can get close to it. This society is always expecting you to be perfect, and sometims the only way of dealing with it is to lie. Did you ever lie or were fake to someone and regret it? Yes, one of my friends introduced me to her new friend, I didn't like the girl, but I didn't want to hurt my friend, so I just pretended to like her. She turned out to be a real assh*le, I so regret having been nice to her  Also: Were you ever caught being fake or lying? What happened? Did it effect or change you in anyway?: Nope, it's not because I'm a smartass, but because I don't lie that much.  ... Do I get a cookie now?  ________________________________________________________________________________ "when the world turns it's back to you... kick his ass" |
||
|
   |
1. I don't think i lie on a regular basis, i try to be truthful but sometimes that's not always the best thing to do.
2. Yes there is, and i lead them along because i suppose i don't want to hurt their feelings, even if i can';t stand them. Sometimes it's just to prevent an argument or to prevent things from being awkward. 3. Yes, the reason is because i loved that person and i didn't want to see them get hurt. I knew they'd over react to the truth anyway so it was best for them not to know. (I don't really wanna talk about this) 4. I don't know, i think i do sometimes. Most people do it. I never like to come across or seem self centered or big-headed so i guess it's not one of those things i really do. 5. Yes there is. To my friends i'm more myself, i'm honest with them (usually). And i'm more likely to joke about with them. With teachers i tend to be quite sarcastic and bitchy. With people i really like and am nervous around i'm sarcastic and with my parents i'm more umm, conservative if ya know what i mean. 6. No, i don't think it is possible to be 100% real in today's society because there is so many different labels and expectations of people. Like if you wear certain clothes you're an emo or a chav or something, and if you do certain things or listen to certain music you're a goth. 7. Yes, but i can't remember a particular situation right now. 8. Yes, a week or two ago, the person i lied to now hates me and refuses to look at me. It hurt me a lot because we were really close. So um yeah, i don't expect anyone to read all that lol ________________________________________________________________________________  Credit goes to Fallin for the avie & sig; thank youuuuuu. |
||
|
  |
1.) Not always to a certain person, but I do lie every now and then.
2.) Yes of course. Because I have to be on their team and see them EVERYDAY in school. Also I have 2 years left of constantly dealing with this person, so I figured if we were cool with eachother, it'd make these 2 years painless. 3.) Not really. I dont know that's a tough one. 4.) No. I am who I am, and if you don't get along with me, then there's something wrong with you because I'm willing to talk to anybody. 5.) Many versions: Happy, depressed, thoughtful, talkative, quiet, satisfied, unsatisfied. My moods are my versions I guess. 6.) No, not at all. These fake fucks like Paris Hilton and shit running around are brainwashing us. As well as these "everyone gets a happy ending" MTV shows and movies. Wtf is up with that? 7.) Once or twice. 8.) Nope, I dont get caught! haha ________________________________________________________________________________  ---------------------------------------------------- " Because at the end of the day, what do you have? You have your bones and you have your love--and thats about it. Everything else you do is interpretation." - Ville Valo |
||
|
#1 Tiger |
 I don't have the patients to answer these questions.... I'm about as "real" as I can be. I only lie when it gives me the upper hand  j/k I try not to lie, I do tend to exagerate though ________________________________________________________________________________  Thank You Skylar! |
||
|
|
Caffeine-Powered Zombie Slayer |
Somehow, I'd imagine that exploitation of those in your care is a contravention of the Hippocritical Oath. ________________________________________________________________________________ |
||
|
|
King of the Freaks The Thorn in Kezza's Side |
I had told the fake people to leave. Why are you still here? I'm so glad you have nothing better to do than to check up on complete strangers. I am really curious to hear about your findings. I have nothing to hide. My actions on the Deadsy board were quite legendary. I will be the first to admit that. Nothing I am ashamed of either. Finacial Fraud? I'm very interested in this one. Let's hear about this. I find you to be prime example of what is wrong with this world. You pass judgements from a couple PMs on a message board. I trusted you not in the slightest my friend. Mostly due to the fact that when I first met you you were slinging crap at me in the Random thread. So you opened your mouth. Let's see you back it up. If it's confessions of Deadsy board mods I'll stop you right there. I went out of my way to get under their skin. What else you got? Of course i'm hoping you are smart enough not to post specific personal information such as ss numbers etc but I am ready to see how I am such a horrible person. Bring it! I'm a Zombie. Come slay me. Edit: This post contains a typo that I am to be comdemned to message board hell for. Please forgive me I left out an N in Financial. |
||
|
Mental Masturbation |
Do you lie to anyone on a regular basis and if so why?: No. I used to lie, but I realized it was pointless and only got me into trouble. So I just stopped.
Are there people you pretend to like but really can't stand? If so why do you lead them along?: No. Actually... yes. My "friend" Ryan. It's not that I hate him. He just has this tendancy to be really annoying. But he's good company, and a good drinking buddy  Have you ever lied to a friend/family member to spare their feelings? Tell us about it and your reasons why: Lied to somebody to spare their feelings? As in, lied to purposely hurt them? Never to a friend or family member. I don't have it in me. But I did do it once to a mortal enemy. But she deserved it.... Are their people in your life that you present yourself falsely to to make yourself look better than them? Be honest!: No. That's lying. Why lie? It eventually catches up with you, and gets you nowhere. I have learned this the hard way. How many versions of you are there? and describe them.(Meaning to different people do you present yourself in different ways?): Just one. Well.. I can probably say 2. There's the "me" that my family and best friend know, and then there's the "me" everybody else knows. But it's not a 2-faced personality. Just, like with a celebrity... there's the side you see in the public eye. And they have a personal side as well. and finally... Is it possible to be 100% real in today's society? ...and tell us why you have come to this conclusion.: No. You have to maintain a sense of... I dunno. I want to say pride or dignity, but I don't think that's right. For example, I try to be as real as humanly possible. But one time I put on my website that I had been picked up for shoplifting. One of my professors saw that and was mortified. MySpace is a perfect example of this as well. People think it's a safe place to let loose and just "be themselves" but employers use it as a way to check up on their employees. If they find behoavior they disagree with, then they will fire you. (I'm not saying I agree with this... it's just the reality). So, in conclusion... no. It's not possible to be 100% real. At least not in America. Today's culture is based on nothing but lies. Did you ever lie or were fake to someone and regret it?: Sorta. I regret not being a stronger person in high school, and that I bowed down to everyone... being only what everyone expected me to be. But again, I guess it all happened the way it did for a reason. I'm very happy with myself right now, and that might not be the case if things had happened any differently. Were you ever caught being fake or lying? What happened? Did it effect or change you in anyway?: I have been caught being fake many times. It wasn't until the past year that I really discovered "who" I was. I think everytime I got "caught" it only strengthened me, as it would teach me that this is not "what I am". ________________________________________________________________________________  |
||
|
|
Caffeine-Powered Zombie Slayer |
1. Legendary? More like exasperating, stupid and annoying. 2. I'm not your friend. Lose the vernacular - it really doesn't become you. Frankly, I don't know what would. 3. I didn't pass judgement on the basis of a PM. I passed judgement on the veritable treasure trove of narcissistic rubbish you vomited all over the boards. 4. You haven't actually met me either. Maybe there is a god. 5. So, you want to know about your alleged financial fraud, but you're not interested in anybody's claims? Damn, that's dash cunning of you. Actually, what was especially crafty was using the term 'finacial' fraud, thus obfuscating the issue. Well done there. 7. You're not a zombie. You're a pusillanimous troll. Who's going to have to look that one up, I've no doubt. 8.
Ah, that explains your nonexistent sex-life. 7. Hang on, you're the infamous 'Stilltrying'? ________________________________________________________________________________ |
||
|
| Previous Topic | Next Topic | powered by groupee community | Page 1 2 3 4 5 6 ... 14 |
 | Please Wait. Your request is being processed... |
|
|||
| Site | HIM Community | ||
| Servlet | eve2da035 | ||
| Version | 1.2.13 build 8570 | ||
| Module | Forums 4.0.3 | ||
| Stylesheet | "Darkest Light" | ||
| Wordlet Set | "Default Wordlet Set" | ||
|
| View $GS_USERNAME's Public Profile |
| Add $GS_USERNAME to my Buddies |
| Invite $GS_USERNAME to a Private Topic |
| View Recent Posts by $GS_USERNAME |
| Notify me of New Posts by $GS_USERNAME |
