With my first girlfriend I never told her anything about my fetish. I was always afraid of how she would react. My second semi-girlfriend I told, and she reacted fine, but we never worked out. My third I didn't tell for a while until I surprised her with a gift that I had had all along, a leather corset and those opera leather gloves. That was liberating; sex was sooooo much better. Slowly I showed her the collection and she was very accepting but not hopping into the rubber either. But then she left and I was back to the right hand.