Life, love and complexity.

Love. What is it? Why do we have it? It causes pain and happiness. Unrequited love, (which is the common kind.) is painful, so why have it? Why don�t we love the right person instantly? Why do some people find true love almost instantly, and others are left searching...forever? Doesn�t everyone deserve a little happiness and love? Maybe they don�t, but maybe because they�ve never experienced love, they do things, which doesn�t make them worthy of the love of others. If they�d have had that love to begin with maybe they wouldn�t be so full of hate. Closeness, is a great thing. Or so I�ve been told. I wonder what it�s like. Will I ever find out? Who knows. I don�t. Maybe I�ll never know. Sad but true. But then who does find out? People don�t realise what they�ve got till it�s gone, so how do they know they ever had it, if they�ve always got it, and never lose it. Do people really know what love is. People write about love, but they write to try and understand it, not because they already do. I don�t understand it, though I do write about it. Who invented love, who came up with that idea? Whoever it was, is the only person who knows what it is, and that person is probably dead...great just when you need some answers! Life, so complex. So many problems, mostly stemming from love. It�s a big thing; it controls most of our lives. Experiences through life, teach us a minor part of love, nobody ever gets to see the big picture. I wonder if anybody really loves, or if it�s just a state of mind...