


One big thing my husband is holding against me is the fact that I did not go places with him all the time (I did not realize how important it was to him that I do that!) Especially to his family's house, but I have always felt his mom had something against me, and did not feel very welcome there (no excuse however!) Now the kids have told me of 3 separate times when they went to his family's house for some reason or another, and the strange woman did not accompany them because she had to clean house. But she sent her son along with them (free babysitting for Her!) (One day he will open his eyes to realize this!! PTL for seeing a thorn!) ~Katrina


Until this morning --- I got an email from a dear friend of the family who is praying for (us) to get back together. She sent me an email that (my wife) had sent to her including her response to the flowers and email. HER EMAIL ~> "Richard has sent me some gorgeous flowers twice in the last month, and a really sweet e-mail. I only allow myself very limited communication with him. Part of my wants to keep it that way; part of me is weakening a little. I do miss being part of a complete family, and the boys have missed out a lot on the family tree activities, etc., and I feel badly about that. ----- I do not want to open up another can of worms by "trying to make things work" and then failing again for the millionth time."
So, even though you may not see God at work in your spouse's life, HE is working. He is working in both of us to be conformed to the image of his son. Hopefully this will be of encouragement for you to continue believing God and praying for your mate. Pray for God's mercy over them and that through the "goodness of God, they will come to repentance". And forget the heresy "that they have a will of their own and God won't go against their will". That theology is Bull. God IS GOD and there is NO problem and NO person bigger than him. It is only us who limit our faith and belief in God. Otherwise how do people get saved? God arranges the circumstances, puts them in a corner, or reveals his goodness to them, and he does whatever it takes. Most of the time, IMO, I think he lovingly waits for them. Kind of what we need to do. ~Richard

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