Shakti loves this position and it's a wonderful way to stimulate both partners. In this position the man will have the opportunity to practice ejaculation control. His partner will be able to help him with control because she will be able to control her own movement freely and, in facing the partner, be able to read his energy and communicate clearly. This is an excellent position for accessing the G-spot. The woman will have the benefit of very direct Goddess-spot stimulation. Because the two of you are very close in proximity, the breath can be watched closely.
To begin, let's have the two of you kissing and teasing and generously stroking each other all over. That's always a good beginning!
The woman lies on her back, eyes open in soft gaze, and places her legs up and over the shoulders of her partner. She should not use much of a pillow, if any, as this will limit her mobility. He enters her Jade Garden slowly and deliberately. With the man on top, you can go from the Missionary Position to the Yawning Position very easily or you can begin in the Yawning Position, your choice. Thrusting should begin gently as this is a vulnerable position for some women. With her legs on his shoulders she can lift her pelvis easily without strain to her partner. She can rotate her hips easily for maximum contact to her G-Spot. The rotating also stimulates the man and they can both control the movement and the trusting easily and freely from this position.
The man can assume a thrusting pattern in this position quite easily. We suggest: nine deep, then one shallow (and slow) and eight deep, then two shallow and seven deep, and so on. Go slowly and take deep breaths into your bellies. Always remember to breath. The breath carries the intense feelings throughout your body. It translates the acceptance of the pleasure to your brain. This thrusting pattern allows the man to get very excited and then transfer that excitement to the woman. Generally, a woman will like deep thrusting followed by shallow thrusting, which stimulates the G-Spot area more.
In this posture the hands are very free to stimulate other erogenous zones. The man can use his hands on the clitoris, the breasts, the face, the heart or any other area on the woman's body where he knows her pleasure will be enhanced. She is free to ask for the touch that she would like. The woman's hands are free to caress her partner's face, back, neck, thighs and legs, scrotum, gently pull his hair or wrap her arms around his neck. She can assist him in orgasming but not ejaculating in this position because she can read his energy easily and she is able to move, do her kegels to grip him firmly or lie still so he won't go over the top too soon. Lying still, in a heightened state of arousal, with the woman squeezing her Pelvic muscles in this position is pure ecstasy. This is a good way to let the man come back to a more stable state if he is feeling that he might be getting close to ejaculating. Lie still and, if appropriate, the woman can pump her Pelvic muscles slowly and keep him just at the edge of excitement.
A variation on this position is for the woman to straighten her legs and firmly push the backs of her legs away from the man. In doing so she puts an even greater angle on her pelvis and consequently the man's lingam (penis) accesses the G-spot even better. She is more in control of the thrusting in this variation and can control the deep versus shallow thrusts and the speed of the thrusting.
This moment would be a powerful time for a little Sex magic with the two of you envisioning something you desire in your lives. Whether it be World Peace, complete happiness or a full life filled with gratitude and love, this is the moment to vision for yourselves!