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Oh well we keep discussing about internet relationship so i came up with these points of view.It take your time to read it and let me know your reaction
If your computer could groan,it probably would, as it juggles endless programs and windows ranging from ICQ, MSN, MIRC, Outlook Express, hot forums and even hotter online game sites.You reign in cyber-space as your multi-tasking fingers shoot snipers, trash spam mails and dish put pick-ip lines for cuties.
You scan through your IRC channel and a fanciful "nick" catches your eye.immediately, you request for a private chat with someone with the screen name "Kish" and before you know it, both of you hitting it off perfectly, so well in fact that you've exchanged online contacts and even set the next online appointment with the sweet "Kish".
As the days pass, the feeling you have for "Kish" are slowly evolving into something deeper.you wait online anxiously, anticipating her arrival.you check your email every three seconds for her mail while surfing for love e-cards.tonight, you decide, is the night you'll make her your girlfriend.well, a cyber girlfriend at least.
The internet has changed our lives drastically.Gone are the days of slogging in the library, pouring over endless books for information required for your school projects.No longer do you need to squeeze i malls with those shoppers, with the ease of online shopping at the comfort of your own room.Even our social lives have taken a new turn.The internet had made the world smaller place and its now so much easier to make friends from Australia to Antarctica via internet chatrooms and websites.The convenience of email had also put an end to long waiting times and expensive letters to and fro long live the internet!
Before the existence of the internet, no one had ever heard of online relationships.However, it is now not uncommon for couples to pair off online.The story behind their union is usually like the one above- the couple bump into each other online, usually in a chatroom, There is chemistry between them and they like each others company.After endless nights of onlien chats, they decide to become an online item.
Many of you might have online bf/gf and some of you may even have more that one! LOL joke hehehe...Online relationship are a whole new ball game and there are no limits to what both of you can do online tohether.Send love e-cards daily, pen a mushy emails, pit your skills with each other with online games and trivias, chat till dead of the night with MIRC..its your call!
Online relationship can be fun and healthy for you to make more friends.However remember that BALANCE IS THE KEY.Chatting with your sweetie and leaving your work untouched is bad idea.Playing games together and forgoing your commitments in real life is a no-no as well.Keep in mind that you are livng in a real world and not a fanciful virtual one.IF you've decided that your sweetie is the one for u and u r ready for a relationship in life just remember diz....BE mentally prepared, personalities can change behind the anonymity of computers so do not be surprised if your sweetie turns out to be quite a different person in the real life.
And YES cyberspace might seem like the perfect place to live, but its not reality.whatever you do online will have results in the offline world.so remember-learn to balance your online and offline lives, and that will make an online relationship so much easier....Oppps enuff its toooooo long already
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