Dear friends,
in this busy and hectic schedule we almost
have forgotten the way of living life .every day and night working for monetary
reward and looking for comfortable and luxury life and trying hard to push in
to materialistic life made us deviate from the original path and later on try ‘n’
find peace of mind when everything is gone all in front of our Eyes. None but
we alone are responsible for what we do .often people make excuses and use the
word like, if and but.
This is my simple effort to have a people
around us to think and transform the way we think. To create a community of a
people who can think broadly and realize that what is our
objective to be alive in this beautiful world. How can
an individual think differently to change other people around him, how can we
make every individual to attain
progress, happy and prosperity in this world.
It’s a crystal clear and I hope no one who
has a bit sense of deja’vu argues about the ultimate Truth of this universe is
death. We are here for some time frame which might be around 100 years for human;
the same time frame for various animals differs .3 days of human time frame
might be well comparable like 100 years for mosquito, as their life cycle is
granted for that time duration. Once we leave this world we are actually
leaving every physical and materialistic thing what we earned through out our
life by means of hard work or bye hook and crook whatever. so if it known well
in advance why not we act on it and give something to this beautiful world rather than leaving everything at the end.
Friends if you agree on me let us transform
the ideas in to reality and act on it.
Here are
some morale which I urge you to go through and realize and practice gradually
and the day will come when we all can make the world better place to leave.
With Regards
Ritu
Raj Lamsal, Mtech., (Ph.D Engg)
Asst.professor
Please visit
the site www.geocities.com/r_lamsal
Mail: [email protected],
………..Every success story is also story of great
failures…………..
one day a partially deaf four
year old child came home with a note in his pocket from his teacher,”your Tommy
is too stupid to learn, get him out of the school “, his mother read the note and
answered,”my Tommy is not too stupid to learn, I will teach him myself “, and
that Tommy grew up to be great Thomas alba edison. Believe it Thomas Edison has
only 3 months of formal schooling.
……………When going gets tough, tough gets going”…
………..“Every problem comes with equal opportunity”……
in 1914 Thomas edison at the age of 67 lost his factory
to fire. It had very little insurance .no longer a young man, edison watched
his life time effort go up in smoke and said,” there is a great value in
disaster, All our
mistakes are burnt up. Thank god we can start a new, in spite of
disaster 3 weeks later, he invented the phonograph.
…….Truth
is contrary to appearance ……
Once a wise
saint took some of his disciple to the jungle to teach a lesson. The disciples were very eager that what might be the
lesson .than the wise saint asked all the disciples to stop near a big old
tree. Near the tree a cave like stone with some bushes was there. Then the
saint asked the first disciple to go inside the cave and tell what he sees
inside. The first went and came back and said he saw a brown lizard .then
second went and said he saw a lizard but was of green color not brown. Third
went and said a lizard but neither brown nor green but was yellowish. Similarly
others too agree on lizard but said different color. And started arguing over
it .then the saint said all of you are right what you saw was correct. But the
disciples were unconvinced how can it be? Then the saint said the creature you all
saw was a type of lizard called chameleon which has the natural ability to
change its color on different point of time and situation.
………..Don’t accept the things if you don’t deserve
it…..
Once lord Buddha went along with his
disciple in the village and started begging the food with the villagers. Some
of them gave some of them denied and so on. Finally they reached to a house
where a old lady looking arrogant and scolding that
they were young enough to do some work and earned their living. Buddha kept
smiling while his disciple got angry the way the lady was scolding their
Master. Buddha asked his disciple to remain calm and return to the jungle. On
the way to jungle Buddha gave a small drinking pot to one of his disciple and
few minutes back asked that whose pot was that. The disciple replied it is your
pot; you have given me for the time being. After few moments Buddha gave the
same pot but this time he said since I have lot affection towards you, you keep
this pot as my gift to you. After sometime the same question Buddha asked whose
pot was that? the disciple said ,it is mine…then Buddha said see how the same pot can belong to different people
,earlier since I gave u the pot but you did not accept that it is yours ,but
second time when I gifted the pot you accept that it is yours . Like wise when
that old lady was scolding me I never accept her words so it belongs to her. So
accept the things you deserve and reject the things you don’t, once you reject it,
it goes to same who offers.
People can be your biggest Asset or Biggest liability.
……What goes
around comes around ………………
An old poor man was working on a farm and his
son was playing around. Suddenly a boy nearby cried for help as he was
trapped in some danger. The old man saw the boy and went for help and rescued
his life. Moment later the boy came with his well dressed and elegant father
and told that he saved his life. The gentleman offered the money for the old
man for saving his son life but the old poor man refused to take it as he said,
I just did the humanitarian work. The gentleman than ask who the other boy
playing in the farm was. The old man replied that he is his son. Then the
gentleman said that as a good will gesture I will educate your son. Then he
took the boy and educated him to become Sir Alexander Fleming. Years later the
son of the gentleman fell severely sick and guess who saved his life. A Penicillin vaccine invented by Sir Alexander Fleming. Now,
do you know who this boy was…he was Sir WINSTON CHURCHIL? …so what goes around
comes around with multiplication.
******luck
favors those who help themselves*****
a flood was threatening a
small town and everyone was leaving for
a safe ground except for one man who said “God Will Save Me”.i
have a faith .as the water level rose a
jeep came to rescue him,the man refused saying “god
will save me”.i
have faith. As the water level rose further he went up to the second story of the
hose and a boat came to rescue him.again he refused
to go by saying god will save me.the water kept
rising and the man climb on to the roof.A helicopter came for rescue,but
he said “god will save me I have a faith”.finally he
drowned and when he reach to his maker he angrily questioned “I had complete
faith on youwhy did you ignore my prayers and let me drown?The Lord replied,”who do
you think sent you the jeep,the boat , and the helicopter”?
******learn from this just “don’t give up “ *******
This was a man who failed in
business at the age of 21, was defeated in legislative race at 22, failed again
in business at age 24, had his sweet heart die when he was 26,, had a nervous
breakdown at 27, lost a congressional race at 34, lost a senatorial race at age
45, failed in effort to become vice president at 47, lost senatorial race at
49, and was elected
president of the united states at age 52.This Man was ABRAHAM
LINCOLN.
“ Some one
approached Blaise Pascal the famous
French philosopher and said if I had your brains I would be a better
person ,”Pascal replied ,” be a better person and you will have my brains”.
……………. “IT counts what’s inside us” ……………
There was a man who made his
living by selling balloons at a fair. He had balloons of different colors
including red, green, blue, yellow, black etc. whenever his business was slow
he used to release the balloons filled with helium gas. Children when saw the balloons
go up they all wanted one. One day the balloon man felt someone tugging at his
jacket .he turned around and a little boy asked him” if you release the black balloon
will it go up.. Moved by the boys concern the man replied
gently” son it is not the color of the balloon which makes it to go up, it is
what’s inside that makes it goes up.’
William James of
“Remember When the smile is not sincere it is irritating”
…………..“Identify what you have” …………..
Hafiz was a farmer in
………“It is too big to hit but also To Big to Miss”
DAVID and Goliath…………
Goliath
was a giant of a man. He struck fear in everyone’s heart. One day a 17 year old
Shepherd boy came to visit his brother and asked why don’t you stand up and
fight with that Giant? the brothers were terrified
with Goliath they replied.. Don’t you
see he is too big to hit? But David said No he is not too big to hit, he is too
big to miss”..
“Every problem comes with an equal
opportunity”
……….Observe more than merely looking……
Look at the sky at the cloudy
night all you can see is dark and cloud. Does it mean that there are no stars?
If you merely look at it yes there are no. but if you analyze and observe you
will find there are stars but not visible at this point of time.
Total quality people (TQP) has character,
integrity, good values and positive attitudes.
………“Change is uncomfortable” even it means for better…………
Sometime humans get so
comfortable with negativity they do not accept the change even though it is for
better. Charles dickens wrote a story about a prisoner who was locked up for
many years in prison. After serving his sentence he got his freedom. He was
brought out from his cell in to the bright daylight of the open world. This man
look all round and after few moments he became so uncomfortable with his newly
acquired freedom he asked to be taken back to the confines of his cell.
……………….“Change Focus, Look
For the gold not Dirt”……………………….
Andrew carengie came to
“When
employees say “I can’t do it, there can be two possible meanings. First can be
“they might don’t know how to do”…the second can be “they don’t want to do it.”.
..………..“Some people always look for negative side”…………………….
There was a hunter who bought
an amazing bird dog .this one of a kind could walk on water. the
hunter was looking forward to showing off his new acquisition to his friend. He
invited his friend to go duck hunting, after sometime they shot few a duck
And man ordered his dog to
fetch the bird. The dog ran on water to retrieve the birds. The owner was
expecting some remark about this wonderful dog from his friend but could not
get any. Finally the owner asked his friend didn’t you notice any unusual with
this dog? The friend replied yes, your dog cannot swim in water..
………………“Procrastination drains energy so build a sense
of do it now” when I become a big boy “…………………………………
A little boys says when he
becomes a big boy, he will do this and that and will be happy. and when he
becomes a big boy he says that when he finishes college he becomes happy, when
he finishes college he says when he gets job he becomes happy, when he gets his
first job he says he will be happy when he gets married, when he gets married
he says he will be happy when the kids get out of the school, when the kids get
out of the school he says he will be happy when he gets retired, and when he
retires what does he see? He sees life has just gone by in front of his eyes..
so don’t
procrastinate ,if some body says I am analyzing they will be still analyzing
six months later and so on. I am getting
ready a month, six month etc later they are still getting ready.Never
leave for tomorrow what you can do it today, the saddest words are
”I might have been”, I
should/could have, I wish I had,” if only I had given a little extra”
… Selective
listening” we hear what we want to and not what is being said”……
A medical doctor was invited
to address and demonstrate the group of alcoholics how injurious the alcohol
is. The doctor took a glass of pure water and then put an earthworm inside it.
The earthworm swam beautifully and came up to the top. Next he took a glass of
alcohol and put an earthworm inside the glass this time the earthworm was
disintegrated in front of everyone eyes. He wanted to prove what the alcohol
does inside our body .He asked the group of people what moral they got from
this demonstration. One of the man from the group replied “if we consume the alcohol
we won’t have worms inside our stomach.”
……………Judgment”education does
not mean good judgment”…......................
There is a story about a man who sold hot dogs
by the road side. He was illiterate, so he never read newspaper and also do not
listen radio and watch TV as he has hard hearing and
weak eyes. But enthusiastically he sold lots of hotdogs .his sells and profit
went off, he order more meat and got himself a bigger and better stove. as his business was growing
his son who was recently graduated from the college joined his father. Then
something strange happened. The son asked “father aren’t
you aware that great recession is coming our way. the father replied”No but
tell me about it”, the son said the international
situation is terrible, the domestic situation is even worse, we should be
prepare for the coming bad times. The father thought that his son is graduated
and reads news paper and listens to the news so he cut down his meat order and
bun. He was now less enthusiastic and even removed his board. Fewer and fewer
people bothered to stop at his stall and the business went down. The father
said to his son “son you were Right” we are in the middle of the recession, I
am glad you warned me ahead of the time.
…………………..“Broad based Education”…………………………….
some animals in forest
decided to start a school.the student included the
bird ,a squirrel, a fish,a dog, a rabbit,and
a mentally retarted eel.a
board was formed to determine the
curriculum and it was decided that
flying, tree climbing,swimming,and burrowing
would give a broad based education.all animals were
required to take all subjects.
The bird was excellent in flying and was
getting A’s but when it come to
burrowing ,it kept breaking its beak and wing
and started failing. pretty soon it started
making C’s in flying, and of course in tree climbing and swimming it got failed.the squirrel was great in tree climbing but failed in swimming. the
fish was great in swimming but failed in other department. the dog didn’t join
the class because it was fightning with the administration that barking also should include .the rabbit
got A in burrowing but failed in tree climbing, also suffered the brain hemerage as it was trying desperately, The mentally
retarded eel, who did everything half as well became the valedictorian of the
class.
“What is the difference between one who cannot read
and other who can read but does not”…………..Yup what a question………………
……………………….SHARPEN YOUR AXE……………………
John a woodcutter worked for
a company for five years but never got a raise. The company hired bill and
within a year he got a raise. Then john resented bill’s getting a raise after
only a year and went to his boss to talk about it. The boss said you are
cutting the same number of trees you were cutting five years ago. We are result
oriented company and would be happy to give you a raise if your productivity
goes up. John went back started hitting harder and also spent more time but
still the numbers were same. He went back to his boss and told his dilemma .the
boss told john to meet bill” may be there is something bill knows that you and
I don’t know’. After this john went to bill and asked how he managed to cut
more trees. Bill answered after every tree I cut I take a break for two minutes
to sharpen my axe, when was the last time you sharpened your axe?
……………….Think positive………………..
A man was washing his new car
when his neighbor asked him” when did you get the car?he replied my brother gave it to me.the
neighbor said I wish I had a car like that.the man
replied you should wish to have a brother like that.the
neighbours wife was listening to the conversation and
she intruppted”I wish I was a brother like that.”
What a positive way to think..
** Thomas edision failed
approximately 10,000 times
while he was working on the light bulb.***
**hennery ford was broke at the age of 40.***
***lee Iacocca was fired by Henry ford 11 at the age
of 54***