Family Secrets: When is it time to bring them to light?

I want people to share some family events that they know of, that are strickly forbidden to be spoken of when the family gathers. Give all the details so that a plausible resolution can be suggested to you for you to try and bring some closure to the issue. I will also tell you if the issue is too dangerous for you to either bring up to anyone inside your family, or weather it will be too risky to get help from an outside entity. I know personally that lots of families have secrets, and I also know that if some are not dealt with in the proper way, the consequences of sweeping it under the rug may be more devestating than trying to resolve it! Truth is, many family secrets destroy lives, so I want to help as many people as I can by reaching out to them by letting them state the situation, get an educated, realistic take on the problem, and seeking a much needed resolution. I know many people can be helped by this effort. So get to telling me your issue, so we can get to a point of much needed peace in your life from here on out. You can choose to keep your name hidden if you like. I promise to respond to your problems as swiftly as I can. So, Let's Get Started!