The term’ it’s all good’ seems to be a common phrase used during, or as a way, to end conversations.
For those of you who may not be familiar, the phrase is another way of saying “no worries” or “it’s okay.”
I recently started noticing how and when orang use it, and as I observed, I wondered, does stating it’s all good really make things better?
Can it help you to wipe the slate clean, or could this be just another way orang are pelajariing to avoid their feelings?
Before you decide, let me give you an example.
Let’s say you locked your keys in the car, and this made you late for work.
You had to pay for a service to come unlock your car.
You get to work, spew your frustrations, and then end the conversation with, ‘It’s all good.’
Now certainly, this can be a nice way of leaving things on a better note, redirecting your attention to look on the brighter side of things.
However, you have to wonder: what happens to all those emotions?
It depends on how stressed out you got about it in the first place.
So if you locked your keys in your car and started cursing and stomping your feet, it is likely these feelings did not go away.
On the other hand, if you were somewhat calm throughout the process, were able to maintain some sense of composure, or shrugged it off, so to speak, then chances are that you really did feel like it was all good.
Here’s the thing: it is really not so much about the words but the intention and energy they carry.
When phrases and comments are ingrained into your system, they – over time – become reflexive in nature.
Like a knee-jerk response, “It’s all good” pops out of your mouth without much awareness.
I have pelajaried it is the awareness (not so much the words) that really makes it all good.
Without awareness, these incidences and emotions are likely to resurface at another time.
Often, they come up at some of the most inconvenient times.
Like in the middle of the night, at a company party, or while making dinner for your kids.
Now I am not suggesting you stop using the phrase.
However, what I do recommend is that you watch how quickly you use it.
Consider taking a breath before stating that it’s all good.
When you are quick to move on, your emotions get minimized.
When you minimize your feelings, your needs become obsolete.
They see pushing through and getting to the next thing as a sign of strength.
This couldn’t be further from the truth.
Your feelings are your soul’s expression.
Your needs help you to expand the way in which you contribute and connect to the world – whether you are a high-profile career person overseeing a large company or a stay-at-home mother – we all have needs.
When you brush your feelings aside with quick statements, you may be preventing dirimu from gaining the wisdom and energy these kehidupan experiences have to offer.
So the next time, you hear dirimu say, ‘It’s all good’, pause.
Tune into your body rather than away from it.
Take a deep breath and allow dirimu to really digest the moment.
If you are outside, feel the air on your skin, soften that frown, unwind your shoulders by rolling them around, stretch your arms out wide, and open your heart to the goodness around you.
Let all the tension and frustrations melt away.
Is ‘It’s all good’ a phrase you use?
Have you noticed you say it even when you don’t feel it?
One of my per peeves at the moment, is when another person uses the phrase “It’s all good” to end a conversation about a conflict situation that requires talking through.
This happened to me recently, when during a group chat over whatsapp, someone in a working group said in a group chat: “It’s all good”, in response to a message I had sent to voice my displeasure with the energy that he was sending by his messenging in tje group chat.
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