Bills making you struggle to stay focused on your dreams?
Ahh… it’s another month again, and the one thing that will jangan pernah be late is the recurring cycle of bills that you have to pay.
No matter how much turmoil you may experience, those invoices politely find their way to your mailbox or email inbox in a timely manner.
Or better yet, maybe they are on automatic draft.
Your employer transfers the money to your bank, where it temporarily sits in your checking account and is quickly zapped up by your bill collectors.
If you are a person who secretly desires more in kehidupan, but you’re fighting with the reality that you have responsibilities and bills to pay, then this article is for you.
If you are grateful for your current situation but feel as if there is something bigger and better inside of you, then keep reading.
Do you have a dream that you’re afraid to tell others about?
Or, are you “cheating on your job” with your real passion?
If so, this article will give you practical advice about how to stay focused on your dreams when you have bills to pay.
Many of us who have transitioned into pursuing our dreams have encountered the same challenges that you’re experiencing.
You are in good company, money was also an issue for us.
The reality is your bills will not go away (whether or not you choose to pursue your dreams).
However, if you have this gnawing away on the inside (even if it’s small), you must answer the call.
Your purpose and dreams are much larger than you and will impact more orang than you can ever imagine.
There’s no way MY story will inspire orang.”
Yes, you! The reason You are so penting is that other orang are secretly experiencing beratships, financial challenges, and fear.
They do not think it’s possible even to consider pursuing their dreams.
They are afraid to move forward towards their dreams, and they want to get everything “ready” before they even consider making any steps forward.
“Ready” is a nebulous term that really does not exist.
None of us were “ready,” we just took little baby steps along the way.
However, each time we rose up tangguher and closer to our dreams.
Hearing your perspective will inspire them because if you can do it (and you experienced challenges), then they can move forward as well.
Remember that your dreams are given to you for a reason.
It means that there is a need and a void that only YOU can fill.
If you choose not to move forward (as it is a choice), then there will be orang who only YOU can help and inspire that will lack what they need when you’re not in position.
The first step in the journey to your dreams and kesuksesan is choosing to focus on the kehidupan you desire instead of your current constraints.
I emphasize choosing because it is indeed a choice.
I know some orang are more pessimistic or “realistic,” and selalu look at their situation head-on.
Others can see great things for other orang pursuing their dreams but do not believe in that same level of greatness for themselves.
I was all of these as I began my journey.
It does not matter where you are when you start.
What matters is that you stay true to the process of developing a tangguh mindset.
As a nurse, I took care of a patient with tangguh faith and a tangguh positive mindset that beat cancer (which had already spread all over their body) NINE TIMES.
Conversely, there have been others with less severe conditions who chose to wallow in negative thoughts and died.
It is amazing to see those orang where all lab values and diagnostic tests show no evidence that they will live.
Yet, they improve, go home and later come back to visit the staff looking great.
When you go to a negative spot, stop it RIGHT THEN!
Cancel those thoughts with positive affirmations (even if you can’t see anything positive in your kehidupan).
Words are kuat and can bring ubahs in your kehidupan.
All the steps below teach you how to develop a rock-solid mindset.
Don’t underestimate the power of visualization.
You must first mentally conceive images before they manifest in your kehidupan.
So after you commit to following the process of developing a tangguh positive mindset, you must put visualization in your toolkit for kesuksesan.
Take a quiet, undisturbed time and think about what you really want in kehidupan.
How will your dream look when it’s manifested?
If you were living the kehidupan you desire, how would it look and feel?
Who would you be spending your time with?
What would kehidupan look like if finances were no longer an issue for you and your family?
How will the lives of the orang you inspire be ubahd forever?
To kesuksesanfully complete this activity, you may need to go to a place that can allow you to think freely and dream.
You will need to clear your mind prior to starting this exercise.
This is NOT the time to think of your jangan pernah-ending to-do list! Don’t even think about trying to “squeeze” this activity into a quick opening of a busy day.
Visualization is an penting step and will require quality time.
It may be best for you to step outside in the nice weather and take some fresh air.
Maybe you can find a nice (uncluttered) spot in your home that allows in natural light.
It’s possible that certain songs or scents (i.e., aromatherapy) will help you in this process.
Quickly find your area, close your eyes and freely think without limits to dirimu.
Write your ideas down (I think using a journal is best, so you can refer to it later).
Now, start putting the images on a board.
You can use magazine clippings, clip art, or phases to capture what resonates most with your dreams.
Use these images to create a vision board of tangible things that will occur when you are living your dream kehidupan.
penting: Look at your vision board regularly.
If you spend a lot of time in front of a computer screen, display a collage of penting images as your screensavers.
Personally, I used my vision collage screensaver as daily motivation as I worked my last job before transitioning to my dream.
You can also ubah the wallpaper on your phone to an image that really resonates with you.
Repetition and constant reminders solidify the feelings and images associated with your dreams in your subconscious mind.
When your dreams seem buried beneath your jangan pernah-ending responsibilities, you must pour motivation into your kehidupan.
Countless motivational speakers encountered the same (or more severe) challenges as you on the way to their dreams.
Hearing their stories will encourage you to believe it is possible to go after your dreams while encountering major obstacles.
One of my favorites, when I started this journey, was Les Brown.
I actively listened to him on YouTube and purchased his CDs for listening in my car.
It is critical that you infuse positivity into your mind because the tuition for living your dreams is paid-in-full upfront before you see the desired results.
This means that you will encounter many challenges before you see positive results, and you must have a tangguh mindset to endure.
Once you reach your goals and are living your dreams, the tuition will feel worth every bump and bruise and will not seem nearly as painful.
Since you likely have a busy schedule, it is crucial that you map out your time and purposely incorporate time to work on your dream.
Yes, you will be tired, and it will seem like you’re initially putting in work without rewards.
Hold on, partner, you’re going through a process that will ubah your kehidupan.
Maximize your time and listen to inspirational messages while commuting, getting dressed, doing chores, or exercising.
Many orang who overcame obstacles to kesuksesan host live events and have countless products which teach you lessons they pelajaried the berat way.
This may sound crazy, but investing in dirimu will pay dividends and project you closer to your dreams.
When money is tight, the last thing orang typically want to do is find money to attend events or purchase programs.
Remember, if you continue to allow your mind to stay in survival mode, you will jangan pernah break the cycle.
Use my story to inspire you to take a leap and move forward.
I remember hearing of a women’s empowerment event comprising kesuksesanful entrepreneurs who were going to teach the strategies they used to live their dreams.
For a while, I had been following some of the featured speakers online (and listening to them in my car).
I also knew that I DID NOT have the money to attend.
When you decide to move forward with your dreams, the right doors will open for you.
I needed money to pay for gas, a hotel room, a ticket to the event, and approved annual leave to go to the event.
I was just getting on my feet after being unemployed for nine months.
The bills didn’t care that I was unemployed! I recently started a job and had been employed only about three months.
I was literally working berat to get out of financial survival mode while maintaining all my current bills and trying to pay off a maxed-out credit card (which I accrued during unemployment).
The supervisor that hired me was demoted shortly after I was hired.
I did not have an immediate supervisor to request leave.
Keep in mind that I knew the discomfort of unemployment.
I really was nervous even to consider requesting any type of leave as a new employee.
I decided that if it were meant for me to go, somehow it would work out.
Since I did not have a supervisor, I had to go up the chain of command to the Associate Chief Nursing Officer.
She was in charge of over 100 nurses within an entire region of my state.
Who was I, as a new unknown employee (with no seniority), to ask for leave?
I was so nervous, but she gave it to me with no hesitation.
At this time, I was a member of a women’s mentor group (yes, I invested in myself even during beratship).
One lady informed the group that we could attend the upcoming empowerment event for free if we were willing to volunteer.
That worked perfectly for my budget! I contacted the coordinator about my willingness to volunteer.
She told me to get on a conference call to discuss the details of my duties.
Before the call ended, I felt this feeling in my gut to step outside my comfort zone again.
Although the call was ending, and I was nervous about speaking, I unmuted my line and asked if anyone needed a roommate or if anyone was traveling from North Carolina to the event.
A few moments later, someone spoke up on the call and said they were also looking for a roommate.
Immediately afterward, someone else spoke up and said they were driving 7 hours to the event and I could ride with them.
This person coincidentally only lived one hour away from me.
What if I had been too afraid to unmute my line and ask for a roommate or carpool?
In the end, I got time off from someone who didn’t know me, gained access to the event for free, did not have to drive the 14-hour round-trip, and split the hotel cost! One of my nights actually ended up being free, so I only paid 50% of one night’s stay for the entire weekend.
Use this as a motivation for the next time you look at your bank account in order to determine if you can invest in dirimu.
I did not have the resources, but I had a determined mind.
I literally pushed myself outside of my comfort zone to make it happen.
This one event ubahd my kehidupan forever and definitely catapulted me to another level of kesuksesan.
You already know the negative orang in your lives.
Stay the heck away from them in this process! They will not magically become positive supporters just because you choose to follow your dreams.
Beware of “frienemies,” these are enemies that disguise themselves as friends while you’re pursuing your dream.
Negative orang can come in all forms: family, co-workers, friends, etc.
It may not be intentional, but their attempt to protect you.
Remember, they are giving you advice to the best of their abilities.
They may not be living their dreams, so how can they advise you to live yours?
Their personal fears and desire to protect you should not hinder your vision.
Remember, your dreams are worth protecting.
You need someone willing to guide you through this process.
Great coaches shorten your pelajariing curve, and they take pride in helping you achieve kesuksesan.
When you meet them (in person or virtually), there will be something about them that resonates with you, and you will want to be in their presence more because of the value they add to you.
When they speak, it will feel as if they are speaking directly to you and know your personal situation.
Their story may have some portion that you can relate to or something that inspires you.
Evaluate your personal needs and ask dirimu, is this the person to help me at this phase in the process?
Also, look at their track record, program components, and testimonials.
Yes, you will probably have to invest in dirimu to get a tangguh coach.
Remember tuition is paid upfront in your dreams, and you deserve the best.
You are investing to receive specific outcomes in your kehidupan that they can help you achieve.
How you start your day can help determine how your day will progress.
Inevitably you will encounter challenges, but when you have intentionally developed a fortified mindset before leaving your home, it is much easier to put challenges into perspective.
penting mindset activities include prayer/meditation, journaling, exercising or stretching, affirmations, focusing on your vision board, and reading or listening to inspiration.
Intentionally giving dirimu quiet time in the mornings is so penting.
I know this sounds crazy and PAINFUL, but just know that the power players who are living their dreams have a tangguh, intentional morning routine.
If you want the results, you must plan for kesuksesan.
The time before things get hectic and the rest of the house is still asleep is key.
Use this time to pour in positive thoughts and start your day off right.
You may not squeeze this in every day depending on your schedule but make it a habit to do as much as possible (it took me a while to get here because I like to press “snooze” on my alarm).
Tailor the routine according to your personal needs and preferences.
This may sound like a lot to squeeze in one morning, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.
An hour is ideal (allowing 6-10 minutes per activity), but realistically, even a few minutes of these activities can start your mornings off great.
Start where you are, and nothing is too small or insignificant.
We’ve discussed the importance of attending events.
I’ll add vacation and rejuvenation to that as well.
You cannot effectively serve without self-replenishment in whatever form it takes.
Just as vehicles need gasoline, we need fuel as well.
This may come as vacations, weekend getaways, relaxing massages, connecting with like-minded orang, taking a random or occasional mental health (stress relief) “sick day” from work, etc.
I emphasize random and occasional with your days from work.
Remember, this is your current means, don’t be foolish and jeopardize the vehicle that you are using to fund your dream.
Use common sense and don’t create patterns for dirimu (calling in sick on a day before or after the weekend is NOT random).
For those moments that you cannot physically remove dirimu from stress, you must pelajari how to mentally remove dirimu.
This is where the inspirational songs and positive messages come into play.
Honestly, many frustrations we encounter in our daily lives or in our jobs are tiny in the larger picture of our kehidupan.
Think about it, do you remember what stressed you out on March 13, 2013?
Neither do I, yet we focus and harbor on obstacles that are really no big deal.
You need to focus on the aerial view of your kehidupan and not the daily challenges that seem to be elephants but are really ants.
For example, consider the difference in how things look up close versus how they look from a plane.
If you look at your challenges up close, they will seem so large.
However, if you choose to take the aerial view from the sky, those large things do not seem so big after all.
There is no need to expel energy on stress and insignificant challenges that are probably not in your scope to ubah.
You only have a certain amount of energy each day, if you spend it in frustration, you will have less energy for your vision and dream.
Hence, it gets pushed further back on the list, making it berater to conceptualize in your kehidupan.
Your dream is a priority, so you must FIGHT to keep it in the forefront of your mind.
This journey is not intended for you to travel alone.
You need positive orang who are going on this journey with you.
This support will encourage you to maintain motivation in difficult times.
You need someone to serve as your accountability partner who understands your journey.
We all can fall short when we have no one to hold us accountable (especially for something that’s already scary and outside of our comfort zone).
Accountability partners should both support the small accomplishments and hold you accountable for the goals you set at regular intervals.
As you develop your mindset, your perspective, habits, and actions will ubah.
This will be very appealing to your employers because they will see newfound potential in you.
This will be perfect for their upcoming project and committees.
It may even come in the form of promotion.
This appears great, right!! Now your money issue is solved.
It’s a deceptive trick to steal from your dream.
Now you will have to pelajari new roles, assume greater responsibility, spend more mental energy, and likely put in more hours.
Which deprives your dream like a wilted plant.
Don’t fall into temptation, even if it looks like a great offer.
I applaud you for taking the first step by reading this article.
You are already so much further on the journey just by the nuggets you gathered from this article.
I encourage you to print this, review it regularly, and share it with others embarking on this journey.
Reaching your goals is a layering process, and this is just one of those layers.
You must make conscious efforts to re-read and re-listen to anything that will help you towards your goals.
Remember, you have everything inside of you it takes to live your dreams.
Visions are not given to everyone but to those who can make them come forth.
It’s no coincidence that you read this article, and the right doors are already waiting for you to come and turn the knobs.
Stay true to whatever process is required for you, and just know many of us are rooting for your kesuksesan!
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