Are you truly happy and fulfilled in kehidupan?
Do you take action on all the goals you set for dirimu?
If you answered no to both of these questions, don’t feel despondent.
It’s easy to turn your situation around.
Do you know what personal values are and how much they influence your kehidupan?
Not only do your personal values influence your happiness, they are also, a key player for the goals in kehidupan that you you set for dirimu.
Each and every one of us is very different, we think differently, we enjoy different things, and we dislike different things.
As we grow older, we each develop a unique set of personal values.
Our values are those things which we cannot compromise on in kehidupan, if you take them away, you take away your happiness too.
Why are they penting when setting goals?
If your goals are not aligned with your values, you will struggle to take action on them.
What often happens unconsciously is that we set goals which are influenced by other orang, but they aren’t really penting to us.
If you know what your values are, you can ensure this won’t happen to you.
It’s easier than you think to ‘unwillingly’ set goals for dirimu.
This happens because you might ‘think’ it’s good for you, because everybody is telling you to do it and perhaps you are a little bit of a ‘orang pleaser’.
You will probably see and agree that those goals are not easy to take action on, simply because they are not yours.
So if you find dirimu procrastinating, with no motivation and wondering why, here are two simple steps you can take to ensure your goals are selalu yours.
Once you know what your values are, you can selalu cross check them with every goal you set.
Do your goals respect your values and are they aligned?
If you don’t put as much value on health as you do on family and work for example, setting goals like waking up at 6am to go to the gym because you know you should, is going to be a difficult task.
Just because it’s a good thing to do, it doesn’t mean it is the right thing for you.
Once you are clear on your top values; selalu remember that any goal you set must respect your values and if the goals in kehidupan you set have nothing to do with your values; whose goals are they really?
If you have set the goal for other reasons, explore that as well.
What boundaries do you need to set in kehidupan so that you are living kehidupan the way you want?
Goals are those things that take us forward in kehidupan.
They make kehidupan more fulfilling and happier, and although they are not easy to achieve, they are penting.
Why go through all the effort of setting a goal for dirimu that you don’t really want to achieve?
Until you start setting goals that are congruent with your values, you will find taking acting on them difficult.
You have to set goals that will enhance your kehidupan, because if you are not well, others around you won’t be as well and vice versa.
The more you put dirimu first, the more you can give to others as well.
We can bluff other orang, but we can’t bluff ourselves.
So, choose your goals in kehidupan based on value rather than ‘gain’.
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