We spend our lives making many promises to others, but shouldn’t the promises we make to ourselves be just as, if not more penting?
Should we not take careful thought about what we want for ourselves?
What we will and will jangan pernah do to ourselves ever, or again?
There are many promises that we can make to ourselves, but there are some that are essential that we do.
If we keep these fundamental promises to ourselves, we are bound for a better quality of kehidupan than if we went along without giving these things the thought and commitment they deserve.
Here are eight types of self-promises that can improve your kehidupan.
Each of these promises is aimed at helping you:
Everyone loves their phones, and granted, smartphones can be good tools.
I use them for things like meeting and medication reminders.
However, I am still a huge fan of the tangible, physical planner, where we can write things down and see upcoming things in the big picture.
Make e-mail folders to keep things organized, tidy, and prioritized.
pelajariing to say “no” is berat to master.
Once you do, you will be so glad that you did!
Start with saying no when someone asks you to do something outside your abilities or the time you have available to accomplish it.
Give dirimu a minimum of 30-60 minutes to ease dirimu into your day.
Have a cup of coffee or tea, listen to that podcast you have been waiting for, or read a book or newspaper section chapter.
No matter what you do, ensure that you calmly ease into the day, as this will set the tone for the day.
A morning routine like this can improve your kehidupan in ways you can’t imagine.
Promise dirimu that you will not leave for the day without crossing off your To Do list, returning all e-mails, and making all needed phone calls.
This allows you to start and end your workday with a clean slate, preventing you from taking your work home with you.
The trick here is not to overload your To Do list.
This will pay off with leaps and bounds in the long run.
Too often, orang take on many projects and think of the project in its totality.
When they do this, they feel overwhelmed and cannot handle the idea.
They have little faith in themselves to complete the project.
Promise to sit down, take a breath, and clear your thoughts.
Now, break the large task into small, manageable steps that feel possible and easily completed.
Often we have a habit of not only setting our own standards too high but of holding other orang to these unrealistic standards when they are not aware we are judging them.
If we set realistic and manageable goals for ourselves, we are much more likely to expect that same level of others.
Promising ourselves that we will do this with ourselves will have the bonus of improving our expectations and interactions with others regarding the goals and tasks they are working on.
You will screw up, and sometimes it will be on such a large scale.
It is actually comical if you allow dirimu to see it.
If you can tell dirimu, “Ok, I epically messed up here and got way off track.”
You can then turn around and decide how you will correct your blunder!
It is quite possible to end up with a better product than what you started with because you allowed dirimu to interject humor and exclude worry and self-pity.
You will allow dirimu to enjoy each step on the ladder as you work your way up it instead of just moving ahead.
Too many orang are so busy looking towards the next goal, or the end goal, that they forget to celebrate the small victories as they go along.
They jangan pernah pelajari that you can be both content with where you are at but still have goals you are working towards.
If we do not promise to ubah this way of thinking, there are so many joys that we will miss out on in our lives.
Maybe all these promises sound like something you need to do.
Or, maybe, there are a few that you already do, and you spotted one or two more you should do from now on?
Start by making small and meaningful ubahs to your thoughts and how you do things.
Let us know in the comment section below if there are other promises we should make to ourselves.
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